'Merry Christmas!' evokes a feeling of warmth and happiness that encompasses the world in a thread of love and oneness as preached by the Lord Jesus Christ who took birth on this day. There are many traditions that have become associated with this festival over time such as Christmas Card, The Crib, Christmas tree, Star and Santa Claus, Carol singing, Mid Night Mass, that have their own significance and role to play in the Christmas celebration. An accumulation of the practices of at least half a dozen cultures over the centuries, all the Christmas traditions have their own sentiments and meanings and are symbolic of liveliness and harmony of the season.
Illustrated below are some of them. . .
Saturday, December 11, 2004
The Christmas Card
Christmas cards originated in England over 150 years ago. "You cannot reach perfection though you try however hard to there's always one more friend or so you should have sent a card to," wrote Richard Armour. Sir Henry Cole knew exactly what Armour was saying. The founder of the Victoria and Albert Museum in London had so many Christmas greetings to send that handwriting them was impossible. Yet he wanted to make his friends aware of the need to help the destitute on that holiday.
The answer. In the year 1843, Sir Henry commissioned John Calcott Horsley to paint a card showing the feeding and clothing of the poor. A center panel displayed a happy family embracing one another, sipping wine and enjoying the festivities. (So much for good intentions. The card drew criticism because showing a child enjoying a sip of wine was considered "fostering the moral corruption of children.") "A Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to You" was printed on that first card. Legend says Sir Henry didn't send any cards the following year, but the custom became popular anyway.
Carol Singing:
We have special songs that we sing during the Christmas season. The songs are known as carols and they are about when Jesus was born. They were written for a special purpose, often to accompany performances of religious dramas dating from medieval times.
People go 'carol singing'. This is where people will go from house to house singing carols and collecting money for charity.
The traditional period to sing carols was from St Thomas's Day (December 21) until the morning of Christmas Day.
The Crib :
The tradition of building cribs in churches and homes began in the 13th century by the Franciscan friars. The actual crib where Christ was born was brought from Bethlehem in the seventh century and is preserved at the Liberian Basilica in Rome.
The main characters in the crib are naturally the new born baby Jesus, Mary and Joseph together with the cow, the donkey and the sheep; the Sheppard, some with a sheep on the shoulder and the three Kings who came to visit the new born baby bearing gifts of myrrh, frankincense and gold.
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Christmas Decorations:
Red and green are the traditional colours of Christmas. Green represents the continuance of life through the winter and the Christian belief in eternal life through Jesus. Red symbolizes the blood that Jesus shed at His Crucifixion.
In the weeks leading up to and during Christmas, people hang decorations in their homes. These decorations are made of coloured paper and foil. People will also hang greenery around the house, such as holly and ivy. The needle like points of holly leaves are thought to resemble the crown of thorns that Jesus wore when He was crucified. The red berries symbolize the drops of blood Jesus shed.
Christmas Tree:
An ornamented and illuminated Christmas tree has its own attraction during Christmas as everybody keeps straying around it, if just to get a peek of the little treasure of gifts accumulated at its base. It symbolizes warmth, love and happiness of the festive season. Martin Luther, the German monk and the famous church reformer has been credited with the indoor tree decorations. It is said that once while he was wandering through the woods, he saw the dew glistening like stars on the fir trees. He was so mesmerized by the beauty that he brought a small tree to his home and tried to recreate the splendour by lighting up little candles on it.
There is an interesting legend associating it with the birth of Jesus Christ. On the night when Jesus was born, all creatures contributed gifts to be taken to Bethlehem. While olive tree provided its fruit and palm tree came up with dates, fir tree was at loss and was distressed, as it could offer nothing to the newborn king. So an angel took pity on the poor tree and decorated it with stars. Baby Jesus was pleased to see the lighted tree. Since then, it has become a custom to decorate the fir tree on Christmas.
Christmas Star:
It is said that a brightly shining star that had miraculously appeared in the eastern sky guided the Magi (the three wise men from the East) to the newborn king. Astronomers ruled out the possibility of a meteor that burns up in seconds or a comet because according to their calculation, no comets cross the earth's path around the time of Christ's birth. However, since the Magi were also the astrologers of their time, they may have made calculations and interpreted them to predict that a divine soul was to be born on the Jewish land. Now people adorn the churches and homes during Christmas with star as a holy sign that symbolizes high hopes, good fortune and happiness in their lives.
Santa Claus:
Father Christmas or Santa Claus is the favourite of all children on Christmas. The big fat belly, cheerful red colour and snow-white beard with that sweet perpetual smile and 'Ho-Ho-Ho' makes this character instantly lovable to kids and adults alike. Children peep out of windows in the hopes of catching a glimpse of Santa on his reindeer sleigh with Rudolph, the red-nosed reindeer and number of bags full of toys for good children all over the world. They also hope to see Elvin, the favourite and hard-working elf of Santa, who looks after Santa's Rudolf accompanying him on his ride. They wait for the Christmas presents from Santa, which they believe they will find in their stockings or hanging from pillowcases.
Kids never miss out on checking the gifts Santa brings them on the Christmas night and love to cuddle the big fat Santa in his red suit as he hands candies. It is said that the custom of Santa Claus was started after the life of Saint Nicholas, a generous and kind-hearted saint who loved children and was always eager to help poor and the downtrodden. It is said that one Christmas night, he saw a poor father and his three daughters crying for they were so poor that they had eaten nothing for the whole day and could not afford dowry for the girls' marriage. Thus, Nicholas threw three bags of gold from the chimney that fell in the stocking of each girl and brought happiness into their lives forever.
Midnight Mass:
On Christmas Eve, midnight mass and day services are held in the Churches to send out the message and sermons of love and redemption to the devotees as people gather to pray and thank God for his blessings and commemorate the sacrifices of Christ that he made to save the mankind. Midnight mass is held, as Christ was believed to have born at midnight. People dress up in their best holiday clothes as they go to the church at midnight mass, which is usually followed by Christmas celebrations. A lot of Christmas carols and hymns, Christmas decorations, candles, scripture and Bible readings are the highlights of the Midnight mass.
Boxing Day
Boxing Day is the following day after Christmas Day. The name goes back to medieval times, more than 800 years ago, when alms boxes were placed at the back of every church to collect money for the poor. Traditionally, it is on this day that the alms box at every English church is opened and the contents are distributed to the poor.
Historians say the holiday developed because servants were required to work on Christmas Day, but took the following day off. As servants prepared to leave to visit their families, their employers would present them with Christmas boxes.
During the late 18th century, Lords and Ladies of the manor would "box up" their leftover food, or sometimes gifts and distribute them the day after Christmas to tenants who lived and worked on their lands.
Boxing Day is also known as St. Stephen's Day
He lived in Rome and was the first man to be killed for believing in the teachings of Jesus. His story is told in the Acts of the Apostles 6: 1 to 8: 2.
Some people claim that he shares this day with another St Stephen, who came from Sweden. St Stephen of Sweden is the patron saint of horses.
Historians say the holiday developed because servants were required to work on Christmas Day, but took the following day off. As servants prepared to leave to visit their families, their employers would present them with Christmas boxes.
During the late 18th century, Lords and Ladies of the manor would "box up" their leftover food, or sometimes gifts and distribute them the day after Christmas to tenants who lived and worked on their lands.
Boxing Day is also known as St. Stephen's Day
He lived in Rome and was the first man to be killed for believing in the teachings of Jesus. His story is told in the Acts of the Apostles 6: 1 to 8: 2.
Some people claim that he shares this day with another St Stephen, who came from Sweden. St Stephen of Sweden is the patron saint of horses.
Celebrations:
India has over 26 million Christian population and one can witness carolling processions on streets in the large cities. Special bargains and discounts are available on the occasion of Christmas. They attend church service and then gather for a Christmas dinner. In some areas, there are lights decorating the outside of the house and yards, while in other areas, only insides are decorated. The regional influences can be seen in South India, where small clay oil-burning lamps are used as Christmas decorations and are placed on roofs and top of the walls like the Hindu festival, Diwali. In Northwest India, the tribal converts sing their special carols the whole night through and tell the story of Christmas to everybody. Mumbai has one of the largest Roman Catholic communities in India and people create beautiful cribs, Stars are the main part of Christmas decorations, often in the shape of stars, Christmas trees etc. Preparation of varieties of seasonal sweets has great importance and a must offer to visitors on and after Christmas Day.
CONCLUSION:
Christmas teaches us to care about our loved ones, our friends and relatives, our enemies and foes, strangers, poor and downtrodden alike. It binds us in one spirit of hope, love and faith. Giving and receiving gifts is not about money but about the thoughts that you gave in to select the gift. The tradition can be traced back to the birth of Christ. According to the legend, the three wise men or magi from the East brought expensive and precious gifts for the baby Jesus and get his blessings as the newborn king. It is said that one of them brought gold as the symbol of royal splendour to crown the baby as King of the kings. Another brought frankincense with him, which could only be offered to the brazen alter in front of the Holy of Holies and on the Day of Atonement and was thus a special gift too. The last of them brought myrrh, the burial ointment with cleansing qualities to represent the purpose of Jesus Christ as the Saviour of all the sinners of the world.
There were shepherds and people from all walks of life who brought anything that they could afford as a gift and the child blessed him, not according to the cost of the gift but by the depth of love and devotion behind the gift. Today, people share their happiness and merriment with each other on Christmas as they wrap the gifts with flashy and decorated coloured papers and send it to them with the good wishes. The gifts may vary according to the age, choice and status of the person in life but it is the thought that counts. Besides, nothing equals the excitement of opening up the gifts at the midnight hour as people pick up their gifts from the bottom of the tree and eagerly see what is their in store for them.
CONCLUSION:
Christmas teaches us to care about our loved ones, our friends and relatives, our enemies and foes, strangers, poor and downtrodden alike. It binds us in one spirit of hope, love and faith. Giving and receiving gifts is not about money but about the thoughts that you gave in to select the gift. The tradition can be traced back to the birth of Christ. According to the legend, the three wise men or magi from the East brought expensive and precious gifts for the baby Jesus and get his blessings as the newborn king. It is said that one of them brought gold as the symbol of royal splendour to crown the baby as King of the kings. Another brought frankincense with him, which could only be offered to the brazen alter in front of the Holy of Holies and on the Day of Atonement and was thus a special gift too. The last of them brought myrrh, the burial ointment with cleansing qualities to represent the purpose of Jesus Christ as the Saviour of all the sinners of the world.
There were shepherds and people from all walks of life who brought anything that they could afford as a gift and the child blessed him, not according to the cost of the gift but by the depth of love and devotion behind the gift. Today, people share their happiness and merriment with each other on Christmas as they wrap the gifts with flashy and decorated coloured papers and send it to them with the good wishes. The gifts may vary according to the age, choice and status of the person in life but it is the thought that counts. Besides, nothing equals the excitement of opening up the gifts at the midnight hour as people pick up their gifts from the bottom of the tree and eagerly see what is their in store for them.
Book Review : Tuesdays with Morrie
Absolutely lovely book. A definite must buy. Once you have read it, you will be recommending it to a lot of friends too.
It starts with an ex student connecting with a much loved professor when he learns that the professor has only a few months to live. It is about the conversations betweens these 2, every Tuesday on a variety of topics like Death, Forgiveness, Marriage.... In the meanwhile it also gives you a glimpse into the lives of them both.
The book cant really be described, it can only be read & recommended.
After reading it, I'm inspired to reconnect and really talk with the senior members of my family, a large number of whom are over 75.
It starts with an ex student connecting with a much loved professor when he learns that the professor has only a few months to live. It is about the conversations betweens these 2, every Tuesday on a variety of topics like Death, Forgiveness, Marriage.... In the meanwhile it also gives you a glimpse into the lives of them both.
The book cant really be described, it can only be read & recommended.
After reading it, I'm inspired to reconnect and really talk with the senior members of my family, a large number of whom are over 75.
Some of my favourite Alanis Songs
Click here for lyrics. You can also listen to the songs on this site. But they are very graphic and ad heavy. So loading takes awhile and it can get irritating, but guess that’s the price u pay for free stuff on the web.... Google used to have this really neat lyrics site of their own which was fast and no ads, but they seem to have done away with it. Or hidden it somewhere not accessible to their own search engine. : )
The songs I really like are
1. All I Really Want :
Do I stress you out
My sweater is on backwards and inside out
And you say how appropriate
I don't want to dissect everything today
I don't mean to pick you apart you see
But I can't help it
There I go jumping before the gunshot has gone off
Slap me with a splintered ruler
And it would knock me to the floor if I wasn't there already
If only I could hunt the hunter
And all I really want is some patience
A way to calm the angry voice
And all I really want is deliverance
Do I wear you out
You must wonder why I'm so relentless and all strung out
I'm consumed by the chill of solitary
I'm like Estella
I like to reel it in and then spit it out
I'm frustrated by your apathy
And I am frightened by the corrupted ways of this land
If only I could meet the Maker
And I am fascinated by the spiritual man
I am humbled by his humble nature
What I wouldn't give to find a soulmate
Someone else to catch this drift
And what I wouldn't give to meet a kindred
Enough about me, let's talk about you for a minute
Enough about you, let's talk about life for a while
The conflicts, the craziness and the sound of pretenses
Falling all around...all around
Why are you so petrified of silence
Here can you handle this?
Did you think about your bills, your ex, your deadlines
Or when you think you're gonna die
Or did you long for the next distraction
And all I need know is intellectual intercourse
A soul to dig the hole much deeper
And I have no concept of time other than it is flying
If only I could kill the killer
All I really want is some peace man
a place to find a common ground
And all I really want is a wavelength
All I really want is some comfort
A way to get my hands untied
And all I really want is some justice...
2. Hand In My Pocket
Listen to song
I'm broke but I'm happy
I'm poor but I'm kind
I'm short but I'm healthy, yeah
I'm high but I'm grounded
I'm sane but I'm overwhelmed
I'm lost but I'm hopeful baby
What it all comes down to
Is that everything's gonna be fine fine fine
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is giving a high five
I feel drunk but I'm sober
I'm young and I'm underpaid
I'm tired but I'm working, yeah
I care but I'm restless
I'm here but I'm really gone
I'm wrong and I'm sorry baby
What it all comes down to
Is that everything's gonna be quite alright
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is flicking a cigarette
And what it all comes down to
Is that I haven't got it all figured out just yet
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is giving the peace sign
I'm free but I'm focused
I'm green but I'm wise
I'm hard but I'm friendly baby
I'm sad but I'm laughing
I'm brave but I'm chickenshit
I'm sick but I'm pretty baby
And what it all boils down to
Is that no one's really got it figured out just yet
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is playing the piano
And what it all comes down to my friends
Is that everything's just fine fine fine
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is hailing a taxi cab
Forgiven :
You know how us Catholic girls can be
We make up for so much time a little too late
I never forgot it, confusing as it was
No fun with no guilt feelings
The sinners, the saviors, the loverless priests
I'll see you next Sunday
We all had our reasons to be there
We all had a thing or two to learn
We all needed something to cling to
So we did
sang Alleluia in the choir
I confessed my darkest deeds to an envious man
My brothers they never went blind for what they did
But I may as well have
In the name of the Father, the Skeptic and the Son
I had one more stupid question
We all had our reasons to be there
We all had a thing or two to learn
We all needed something to cling to
So we did
What I learned I rejected but I believe again
I will suffer the consequence of this inquisition
If I jump in this fountain, will I be forgiven
We all had our reasons to be there
We all had a thing or two to learn
We all needed something to cling to
So we did
We all had delusions in our head
We all had our minds made up for us
We had to believe in something
So we did
If this interests you, also look up :
Perfect
Right thru you
You learn
Mary Jane
Ironic
Not the doctor
Wake up
The songs I really like are
1. All I Really Want :
Do I stress you out
My sweater is on backwards and inside out
And you say how appropriate
I don't want to dissect everything today
I don't mean to pick you apart you see
But I can't help it
There I go jumping before the gunshot has gone off
Slap me with a splintered ruler
And it would knock me to the floor if I wasn't there already
If only I could hunt the hunter
And all I really want is some patience
A way to calm the angry voice
And all I really want is deliverance
Do I wear you out
You must wonder why I'm so relentless and all strung out
I'm consumed by the chill of solitary
I'm like Estella
I like to reel it in and then spit it out
I'm frustrated by your apathy
And I am frightened by the corrupted ways of this land
If only I could meet the Maker
And I am fascinated by the spiritual man
I am humbled by his humble nature
What I wouldn't give to find a soulmate
Someone else to catch this drift
And what I wouldn't give to meet a kindred
Enough about me, let's talk about you for a minute
Enough about you, let's talk about life for a while
The conflicts, the craziness and the sound of pretenses
Falling all around...all around
Why are you so petrified of silence
Here can you handle this?
Did you think about your bills, your ex, your deadlines
Or when you think you're gonna die
Or did you long for the next distraction
And all I need know is intellectual intercourse
A soul to dig the hole much deeper
And I have no concept of time other than it is flying
If only I could kill the killer
All I really want is some peace man
a place to find a common ground
And all I really want is a wavelength
All I really want is some comfort
A way to get my hands untied
And all I really want is some justice...
2. Hand In My Pocket
Listen to song
I'm broke but I'm happy
I'm poor but I'm kind
I'm short but I'm healthy, yeah
I'm high but I'm grounded
I'm sane but I'm overwhelmed
I'm lost but I'm hopeful baby
What it all comes down to
Is that everything's gonna be fine fine fine
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is giving a high five
I feel drunk but I'm sober
I'm young and I'm underpaid
I'm tired but I'm working, yeah
I care but I'm restless
I'm here but I'm really gone
I'm wrong and I'm sorry baby
What it all comes down to
Is that everything's gonna be quite alright
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is flicking a cigarette
And what it all comes down to
Is that I haven't got it all figured out just yet
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is giving the peace sign
I'm free but I'm focused
I'm green but I'm wise
I'm hard but I'm friendly baby
I'm sad but I'm laughing
I'm brave but I'm chickenshit
I'm sick but I'm pretty baby
And what it all boils down to
Is that no one's really got it figured out just yet
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is playing the piano
And what it all comes down to my friends
Is that everything's just fine fine fine
I've got one hand in my pocket
And the other one is hailing a taxi cab
Forgiven :
You know how us Catholic girls can be
We make up for so much time a little too late
I never forgot it, confusing as it was
No fun with no guilt feelings
The sinners, the saviors, the loverless priests
I'll see you next Sunday
We all had our reasons to be there
We all had a thing or two to learn
We all needed something to cling to
So we did
sang Alleluia in the choir
I confessed my darkest deeds to an envious man
My brothers they never went blind for what they did
But I may as well have
In the name of the Father, the Skeptic and the Son
I had one more stupid question
We all had our reasons to be there
We all had a thing or two to learn
We all needed something to cling to
So we did
What I learned I rejected but I believe again
I will suffer the consequence of this inquisition
If I jump in this fountain, will I be forgiven
We all had our reasons to be there
We all had a thing or two to learn
We all needed something to cling to
So we did
We all had delusions in our head
We all had our minds made up for us
We had to believe in something
So we did
If this interests you, also look up :
Perfect
Right thru you
You learn
Mary Jane
Ironic
Not the doctor
Wake up
Ramblings on some of my favourite music artists
Bellamy Brothers was an uncles favourite, so I grew up listening to their country music at grandmas house. Love Don Williams too.
S&G is Simon & Garfunkel, who Im sure most people would have listened to.
Scorpions & Dire Straits hit it big in the early 80's. Attended the Scorpions Live in Bangalore couple of years ago and thought they are in their 50's now. They still rock.
Strauss is Johann, I just love his waltzes, the only Western Classical Musician I actually enjoy for easy listening, not contemplation.
Carpenters is one of mummys favourites which I grew to like because I listened to them so often because of her.
And who has not heard of "The King"... Elvis himself, he still fills the news with people reporting sightings of him almost daily in the US : )
Shania Twain sings in a rock influenced country kind of way. She's become one of my sisters favourites too because of me.
Allanis Morisette is the only artist I listen to for the lyrics. She comes from this position of rebellion from a rigid catholic upbringing which I kind of identified with when she was singing those kind of songs. She's changed a bit now and her themes are different but I still follow her.
A friend of mine, once told me "I loved the Beatles (still do!), both for their trendseting, unconventional, break all rules type of music and also for the richness of their lyrics. The best anti-cleric (Roman Catholic, that is) lyrics I have heard to date are from the song 'Eleanor Rigby', about the love of a spinster for a priest that could not be actualised because of the 'law of celibacy' which that particular priest chose to adhere to. That is why, you have got me interested in this Allanis Morisette. Perhaps
not the music, although I'll keep an open mind about that, but the
rebellious lyrics! Been a rebel myself from age 14, and have not yet retired! You're right about J. Strauss. No one wrote better waltzes. If you like marches, try John Philip Sousa."
Except for maybe Usher, I don’t listen to any of the new music makers on the scene. I refuse to call them artists because they arent creative enough. Very repetitive music and themes in all their compositions.
Its so difficult to get particular artistes in India. For eg they only sell "Jagged Little Pill" of alanis in India.
I just cant find a "Luther Van Dross" CD. He has sung an amazing song called "Dance with my father again", shortly before he had his stroke. Thankfully he is on the road to recovery. I found him by chance, because one of the actresses in "boston public" sang this song in one of the episodes and I went online to find the lyrics. It’s a very touching song. And that’s how I discovered Luther.
S&G is Simon & Garfunkel, who Im sure most people would have listened to.
Scorpions & Dire Straits hit it big in the early 80's. Attended the Scorpions Live in Bangalore couple of years ago and thought they are in their 50's now. They still rock.
Strauss is Johann, I just love his waltzes, the only Western Classical Musician I actually enjoy for easy listening, not contemplation.
Carpenters is one of mummys favourites which I grew to like because I listened to them so often because of her.
And who has not heard of "The King"... Elvis himself, he still fills the news with people reporting sightings of him almost daily in the US : )
Shania Twain sings in a rock influenced country kind of way. She's become one of my sisters favourites too because of me.
Allanis Morisette is the only artist I listen to for the lyrics. She comes from this position of rebellion from a rigid catholic upbringing which I kind of identified with when she was singing those kind of songs. She's changed a bit now and her themes are different but I still follow her.
A friend of mine, once told me "I loved the Beatles (still do!), both for their trendseting, unconventional, break all rules type of music and also for the richness of their lyrics. The best anti-cleric (Roman Catholic, that is) lyrics I have heard to date are from the song 'Eleanor Rigby', about the love of a spinster for a priest that could not be actualised because of the 'law of celibacy' which that particular priest chose to adhere to. That is why, you have got me interested in this Allanis Morisette. Perhaps
not the music, although I'll keep an open mind about that, but the
rebellious lyrics! Been a rebel myself from age 14, and have not yet retired! You're right about J. Strauss. No one wrote better waltzes. If you like marches, try John Philip Sousa."
Except for maybe Usher, I don’t listen to any of the new music makers on the scene. I refuse to call them artists because they arent creative enough. Very repetitive music and themes in all their compositions.
Its so difficult to get particular artistes in India. For eg they only sell "Jagged Little Pill" of alanis in India.
I just cant find a "Luther Van Dross" CD. He has sung an amazing song called "Dance with my father again", shortly before he had his stroke. Thankfully he is on the road to recovery. I found him by chance, because one of the actresses in "boston public" sang this song in one of the episodes and I went online to find the lyrics. It’s a very touching song. And that’s how I discovered Luther.
Wednesday, December 08, 2004
Padma Vibhushan Pandit Shiv Kumar Shankar in Concert
After Teejan Bai's performance I was treated to my second most subliminal experience in life. (The first being, a one-on-one meeting with Mother Theresa) An absolutely fantastic performance by Padma Vibushan, Pandit Shiv Kumar Shankar on the Santoor
He was invited, as a finale to the 3 day Taramati Festival at Taramati Baradari to perform a unique presentation "Peace & Joy" He was joined by his son, Rahul Sharma on the Santoor, Taufiq Qureshi on Western Drums, Ustaad Shafaat Ahmed on the Tabla and Selva Ganesh on Kanjeera (kind of damru)
They were just back from Meghalaya and on their way to Nairobi for another concert.
At the risk of sounding like my 16yr old sister, Rahul is "Soooooooooooo Cute................" (She reserves this compliment for Australian Cricketers, tho)
He too, plays the Santoor. Although, while Panditji is focussing on concerts, Rahul is focussing on Music Albums. He is all set to release his next album "Jannat" - the first musical album to document the culture & traditions of strife torn Jammu & Kashmir. After this he plans to work on "Maya - the illusion." He has also recently scored music for Tanuja Chandra's English Film "Hope & a Little Sugar"
The seating was open air in an amphitheatre style, with the historic Taramati Baradari as the backdrop on which a play of lights continued throughout the evening. This centuries old monument is where Taramati used to dance for the Golconda king. Legend has it that, the acoustics were such that he could hear her sing from here, when he was seated at the top of the fort. And on Fridays, after Namaaz, she would sing and dance her way to the Fort.
It was in this magical setting, that Pandit Shiv Kumar and his troupe kept the audience enthralled. He started playing around 10PM and by this time only the real music lovers were left, the page 3 varieties had departed after getting their photos clicked by the reporters. For an hour and a half, we were mesmerised & hypnotised by the music. Some parts were solos, some were percussion combinations, a jugalbandi and an amusing range of instruments simulated by Taufiq Qureshi. So much variety in continuity. Words cannot describe the music. It needs to be heard and experienced by each person individually. To listen to such music, in such surroundings, is as close to paradise as it gets on earth. For an hour and a half, I was in Jannat.
He was invited, as a finale to the 3 day Taramati Festival at Taramati Baradari to perform a unique presentation "Peace & Joy" He was joined by his son, Rahul Sharma on the Santoor, Taufiq Qureshi on Western Drums, Ustaad Shafaat Ahmed on the Tabla and Selva Ganesh on Kanjeera (kind of damru)
They were just back from Meghalaya and on their way to Nairobi for another concert.
At the risk of sounding like my 16yr old sister, Rahul is "Soooooooooooo Cute................" (She reserves this compliment for Australian Cricketers, tho)
He too, plays the Santoor. Although, while Panditji is focussing on concerts, Rahul is focussing on Music Albums. He is all set to release his next album "Jannat" - the first musical album to document the culture & traditions of strife torn Jammu & Kashmir. After this he plans to work on "Maya - the illusion." He has also recently scored music for Tanuja Chandra's English Film "Hope & a Little Sugar"
The seating was open air in an amphitheatre style, with the historic Taramati Baradari as the backdrop on which a play of lights continued throughout the evening. This centuries old monument is where Taramati used to dance for the Golconda king. Legend has it that, the acoustics were such that he could hear her sing from here, when he was seated at the top of the fort. And on Fridays, after Namaaz, she would sing and dance her way to the Fort.
It was in this magical setting, that Pandit Shiv Kumar and his troupe kept the audience enthralled. He started playing around 10PM and by this time only the real music lovers were left, the page 3 varieties had departed after getting their photos clicked by the reporters. For an hour and a half, we were mesmerised & hypnotised by the music. Some parts were solos, some were percussion combinations, a jugalbandi and an amusing range of instruments simulated by Taufiq Qureshi. So much variety in continuity. Words cannot describe the music. It needs to be heard and experienced by each person individually. To listen to such music, in such surroundings, is as close to paradise as it gets on earth. For an hour and a half, I was in Jannat.
Tuesday, December 07, 2004
Teejan Bai in Concert
Finally got to watch the Legendary Teejan Bai from Chattisgarh in action. Having heard so much about her, I was wondering if the actual performance could live upto my expectations. But it didn’t.... It surpassed them ! ! ! The Hindi that she used in her Pandwani style of story telling, was so simple that, even I could follow it. Plus she put so much enthu and action into the whole performance, that it was reminiscent of the Usha Uthup kind of energy.
She came to Hyderabad, as part of the Taramati Festival being held at Taramati Baradari by APSTDC. The setting was amazing. But more about that in my next piece.
Teejan Bai sang and acted a scene out of the Mahabharata which included the game of dice being lost by Yudishtir, Draupadi being summoned and dragged in court, a dialog between Rukmini & Krishna before Krishna comes to Draupadis rescue. Pandvani is one of the few styles, where the lead is sung by a woman. Teejan Bai is the best known name in this genre today.
If you get a chance, definitely attend a session by Teejan Bai. It’s a power packed experience.
She was followed by a Pandit Chhannulal Mishra of Benaras who sang a semi classical form of Hindustani Vocals. Unlike many performers, he didn’t have a stiff attitude about his music and had the audience in splits with some lyrical jokes and play on words. Although, I hadnt heard of him before (I dont claim to be an authority on Indian clasical music) I would love to attend an evening, where he is the solo performer. He connects with the audience at every step, which makes it a special performance to follow.
She came to Hyderabad, as part of the Taramati Festival being held at Taramati Baradari by APSTDC. The setting was amazing. But more about that in my next piece.
Teejan Bai sang and acted a scene out of the Mahabharata which included the game of dice being lost by Yudishtir, Draupadi being summoned and dragged in court, a dialog between Rukmini & Krishna before Krishna comes to Draupadis rescue. Pandvani is one of the few styles, where the lead is sung by a woman. Teejan Bai is the best known name in this genre today.
If you get a chance, definitely attend a session by Teejan Bai. It’s a power packed experience.
She was followed by a Pandit Chhannulal Mishra of Benaras who sang a semi classical form of Hindustani Vocals. Unlike many performers, he didn’t have a stiff attitude about his music and had the audience in splits with some lyrical jokes and play on words. Although, I hadnt heard of him before (I dont claim to be an authority on Indian clasical music) I would love to attend an evening, where he is the solo performer. He connects with the audience at every step, which makes it a special performance to follow.
Vote for Taj among the new 7 wonders
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SMS vote for TAJ MAHAL from INDIA:
please send the message "TAJ" to 8888 * and your vote will be counted.
(* Charge: 2 INR to 10 INR per SMS.)
If you cannot use SMS, you can also vote via telephone and a personal code.
How to get your personal code:
If you cannot use SMS to vote, you can also vote via telephone. You need a personal code - but it's really easy!
All you need to do is call the following number to receive your 6-digit code. The code is valid for one use only, and for one hour only from the time of your call.
Telephone line for INDIA:
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Monday, December 06, 2004
How a son understands his daddy at different ages
At 4 Years My daddy is great.
At 6 Years My daddy knows everybody.
At 10 Years My daddy is good but is short tempered
At 12 Years My daddy was very nice to me when I was young
At 14 Years My daddy is getting fastidious.
At 16 Years My daddy is not in line with the current times.
At 18 Years My daddy is becoming increasingly cranky.
At 20 Years Oh! Its becoming difficult to tolerate daddy. Wonder how Mother puts up with him.
At 25 Years Daddy is objecting to everything.
At 30 Years It's becoming difficult to manage my son. I was so scared of my father when I was young.
At 40 Years Daddy brought me up with so much discipline. Even I should do the same
At 45 Years I am baffled as to how my daddy brought us up.
At 50 Years My daddy faced so many hardships to bring us up. I am unable to manage a single son.
At 55 Years My daddy was so far sighted and planned so many things for us. He is one of his kind and unique.
At 60 Years My daddy is great.
Thus, it takes 56 years to complete the cycle and come back to the 1st stage.
At 6 Years My daddy knows everybody.
At 10 Years My daddy is good but is short tempered
At 12 Years My daddy was very nice to me when I was young
At 14 Years My daddy is getting fastidious.
At 16 Years My daddy is not in line with the current times.
At 18 Years My daddy is becoming increasingly cranky.
At 20 Years Oh! Its becoming difficult to tolerate daddy. Wonder how Mother puts up with him.
At 25 Years Daddy is objecting to everything.
At 30 Years It's becoming difficult to manage my son. I was so scared of my father when I was young.
At 40 Years Daddy brought me up with so much discipline. Even I should do the same
At 45 Years I am baffled as to how my daddy brought us up.
At 50 Years My daddy faced so many hardships to bring us up. I am unable to manage a single son.
At 55 Years My daddy was so far sighted and planned so many things for us. He is one of his kind and unique.
At 60 Years My daddy is great.
Thus, it takes 56 years to complete the cycle and come back to the 1st stage.
Saturday, December 04, 2004
Murphy's Laws
Murphy's Laws symbolize the error-prone nature of people and processes.
Given below is a top 10 list of Murphy's Laws.
Murphy's Law
1) If something can go wrong, it will.
2) If anything simply cannot go wrong, it will anyway.
3) Left to themselves, things tend to go from bad to worse.
4) Matter will be damaged in direct proportion to its value.
5) The chance of the bread falling with the buttered side down is directly proportional to the cost of the carpet.
6) The buddy system is essential to your survival; it gives the enemy somebody else to shoot at.
7) Technology is dominated by those who manage what they do not understand.
8) The opulence of the front office decor varies inversely with the fundamental solvency of the firm.
9) Tell a man there are 300 billion stars in the universe and he'll believe you. Tell him a bench has wet paint on it and he'll have to touch to be sure.
10) The first myth of management is that it exists.
Given below is a top 10 list of Murphy's Laws.
Murphy's Law
1) If something can go wrong, it will.
2) If anything simply cannot go wrong, it will anyway.
3) Left to themselves, things tend to go from bad to worse.
4) Matter will be damaged in direct proportion to its value.
5) The chance of the bread falling with the buttered side down is directly proportional to the cost of the carpet.
6) The buddy system is essential to your survival; it gives the enemy somebody else to shoot at.
7) Technology is dominated by those who manage what they do not understand.
8) The opulence of the front office decor varies inversely with the fundamental solvency of the firm.
9) Tell a man there are 300 billion stars in the universe and he'll believe you. Tell him a bench has wet paint on it and he'll have to touch to be sure.
10) The first myth of management is that it exists.
Friday, December 03, 2004
Parents !!!
Our Parents.....
When you came into this world
They held you in their arms
You thanked them by
wailing loudly
When you were 1 yr old
They fed you and bathed you
You thanked them by
Crying all night and keeping them awake
When you were 2 yrs old
They taught you how to walk
You thanked them by
Running away when they called
When you were 3 yrs. Old
They taught you poems
You thanked them by
Not speaking a word at the school interview
When you were 4 yrs old
They took you out for meals
You thanked them by
Tossing the plate on the floor
When you were 5yrs old
They bought you crayons
You thanked them by
Spoiling all the drawing room walls
When you were 6 yrs old
They drove you to school bus
You thanked them by
crying loudly "I don't want to go??.."
When you were 7 yrs old
They bought you the best toys they found
You thanked them by saying
"my friend has got better ones !"
When you were 8 yrs old
They bought you a cricket bat
You thanked them by smashing
The neighbour's window pane
When you were 9 yrs old
They drove you to your friend's B'day Party
You thanked them by
jumping out of the car And not looking back.
When you were 10 yrs old
They paid for your music classes
You thanked them by
Never bothering to practice.
When you were 11 yrs old
They took you to a Hill Station for vacation
You thanked them by complaining
That your friends go abroad
When you were 16 yrs old
They invited your friends home on you B'day
You thanked them by asking them
To stay out and leave you and your friends alone in the room.
When you were 17 yrs old
They turned up for your School PTA meeting
You thanked them by blaming them
For embarrassing you in front of friends
when you were 18 yrs old
They taught you how to drive
You thanked them by taking the car
At every possible opportunity and Making them wait up in worry
When you were 19 yrs old
They were expecting important calls
You thanked them by
being on the Phone with friends for hours
When you were 20 yrs old
They wanted to discuss your career with you
You thanked them by saying that
Your plans are different from theirs
When you were 21 yrs old
They gifted you a two wheeler
You thanked them by leaving it at home
And roaming around in friends' cars
When you were 23 yrs old
They arranged for a job for you
You thanked them by complaining all the time
That its not 'your kind of work'
When you were 24 yrs old
They were excited to find a life partner for you
You thanked them by breaking the news
That you already have someone in mind
When you were 25 yrs old
They spent all their savings on your wedding
You thanked them by
Moving to a separate house with your spouse
When you were 30 yrs old
They called up with some advice on your baby
You thanked them by telling them
That things are different from their time
When you were 35 yrs old
They wished you on your wedding anniversary
You thanked them by going out with your wife
And leaving the kids behind for them to take care
When you were 40 yrs old
They asked your to attend a relatives' wedding
You thanked them by saying
That we are really very busy to go
When you were 45 yrs old
They wished to come over and stay with you
You thanked them by saying that your children
Had trouble 'communicating' with them
When you were 50 yrs old
They fell ill and needed your care
You thanked them by making sure
They had signed all 'property papers'
And then one day
They quietly went away
And everything you never did
Came crashing down on your face
We may find it childish and silly
To tell our parents in word that we love them
But can't we take our moments to make sure
They know this someway ?????.
There is no substitute for them
Cherish every single second spent in their care
They may not be your best friends
And you may not agree with everything they say
But this is one place you can just close your eyes
And trust blindly that whatever they are saying
Is only for your good ????..
Have different viewpoints from them
But never let it overpower love and respect.
THEY MADE YOU WHAT YOU ARE
THEY ARE NOT THE ONES TO BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED
LOVE THEM MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOURSELF
AND SHOW IT TOO ???????
LIFE IS MEANINGLESS WITHOUT THEM???..OUR PARENTS !!!
When you came into this world
They held you in their arms
You thanked them by
wailing loudly
When you were 1 yr old
They fed you and bathed you
You thanked them by
Crying all night and keeping them awake
When you were 2 yrs old
They taught you how to walk
You thanked them by
Running away when they called
When you were 3 yrs. Old
They taught you poems
You thanked them by
Not speaking a word at the school interview
When you were 4 yrs old
They took you out for meals
You thanked them by
Tossing the plate on the floor
When you were 5yrs old
They bought you crayons
You thanked them by
Spoiling all the drawing room walls
When you were 6 yrs old
They drove you to school bus
You thanked them by
crying loudly "I don't want to go??.."
When you were 7 yrs old
They bought you the best toys they found
You thanked them by saying
"my friend has got better ones !"
When you were 8 yrs old
They bought you a cricket bat
You thanked them by smashing
The neighbour's window pane
When you were 9 yrs old
They drove you to your friend's B'day Party
You thanked them by
jumping out of the car And not looking back.
When you were 10 yrs old
They paid for your music classes
You thanked them by
Never bothering to practice.
When you were 11 yrs old
They took you to a Hill Station for vacation
You thanked them by complaining
That your friends go abroad
When you were 16 yrs old
They invited your friends home on you B'day
You thanked them by asking them
To stay out and leave you and your friends alone in the room.
When you were 17 yrs old
They turned up for your School PTA meeting
You thanked them by blaming them
For embarrassing you in front of friends
when you were 18 yrs old
They taught you how to drive
You thanked them by taking the car
At every possible opportunity and Making them wait up in worry
When you were 19 yrs old
They were expecting important calls
You thanked them by
being on the Phone with friends for hours
When you were 20 yrs old
They wanted to discuss your career with you
You thanked them by saying that
Your plans are different from theirs
When you were 21 yrs old
They gifted you a two wheeler
You thanked them by leaving it at home
And roaming around in friends' cars
When you were 23 yrs old
They arranged for a job for you
You thanked them by complaining all the time
That its not 'your kind of work'
When you were 24 yrs old
They were excited to find a life partner for you
You thanked them by breaking the news
That you already have someone in mind
When you were 25 yrs old
They spent all their savings on your wedding
You thanked them by
Moving to a separate house with your spouse
When you were 30 yrs old
They called up with some advice on your baby
You thanked them by telling them
That things are different from their time
When you were 35 yrs old
They wished you on your wedding anniversary
You thanked them by going out with your wife
And leaving the kids behind for them to take care
When you were 40 yrs old
They asked your to attend a relatives' wedding
You thanked them by saying
That we are really very busy to go
When you were 45 yrs old
They wished to come over and stay with you
You thanked them by saying that your children
Had trouble 'communicating' with them
When you were 50 yrs old
They fell ill and needed your care
You thanked them by making sure
They had signed all 'property papers'
And then one day
They quietly went away
And everything you never did
Came crashing down on your face
We may find it childish and silly
To tell our parents in word that we love them
But can't we take our moments to make sure
They know this someway ?????.
There is no substitute for them
Cherish every single second spent in their care
They may not be your best friends
And you may not agree with everything they say
But this is one place you can just close your eyes
And trust blindly that whatever they are saying
Is only for your good ????..
Have different viewpoints from them
But never let it overpower love and respect.
THEY MADE YOU WHAT YOU ARE
THEY ARE NOT THE ONES TO BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED
LOVE THEM MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOURSELF
AND SHOW IT TOO ???????
LIFE IS MEANINGLESS WITHOUT THEM???..OUR PARENTS !!!
Exercise for new Mothers - Stroller Strides
The American Woman has finally realised what Indian Women always knew. Having a baby is a full time job & exercise routine.
Tired of feeling guilty of leaving your child at a creche while going to the gym for a workout ?
An enterprising young mother in the US, has formulated an exercise plan, where young mothers with New Borns meet up with their children in strollers and take a joint walk and short breaks to develop other muscles.
What is Stroller Strides?
Stroller Strides is a total fitness program for new moms that they can do with their babies. It includes Power Walking and intervals of body toning using exercise tubing and the stroller. Taught by nationally certified instructors, it's a great workout for any level of exerciser. Please get doctor's permission before starting this or any other exercise.
What do I need?
You, your baby and the stroller. Just about any kind of stroller will do so long as it's not prone to tipping. We also suggest you bring WATER, a hat or sunblock for both you and your baby, and a towel or mat for our ground exercises.
What can I expect when we meet?
Each class consists of a warm up, a power walk and "stations" where we do a variety of body toning exercises. We use exercise tubing (which we provide you with), the stroller and the outdoor environment to create our gym. If your baby is fussy, we will show you exercises that you can do with your baby.
So guess, nani & Dadi have always known best !!!
Tired of feeling guilty of leaving your child at a creche while going to the gym for a workout ?
An enterprising young mother in the US, has formulated an exercise plan, where young mothers with New Borns meet up with their children in strollers and take a joint walk and short breaks to develop other muscles.
What is Stroller Strides?
Stroller Strides is a total fitness program for new moms that they can do with their babies. It includes Power Walking and intervals of body toning using exercise tubing and the stroller. Taught by nationally certified instructors, it's a great workout for any level of exerciser. Please get doctor's permission before starting this or any other exercise.
What do I need?
You, your baby and the stroller. Just about any kind of stroller will do so long as it's not prone to tipping. We also suggest you bring WATER, a hat or sunblock for both you and your baby, and a towel or mat for our ground exercises.
What can I expect when we meet?
Each class consists of a warm up, a power walk and "stations" where we do a variety of body toning exercises. We use exercise tubing (which we provide you with), the stroller and the outdoor environment to create our gym. If your baby is fussy, we will show you exercises that you can do with your baby.
So guess, nani & Dadi have always known best !!!
Heard about the Wing Women ?
Have u heard abt the new concept of Wingwomen. A guy pays a girl to take her out. But she is neither a prostitute or an escort. She is a Wing Woman !
A wing woman accompanies a guy to a party or a bar or any social meeting place, here he identifies a couple of wopmen he would like to meet up with or talk to but doesnt have the courage or is too shy. The Wingwoman approaches the other woman and starts a casual conversation with her, then introduces the guy as her friend. If the 2 hit it off, the wing woman slowly walks out of the picture.
This concept has taken New York by storm where men are too busy or too egoistic to meet women on their own.
Do u think it can work in India ? Do we need it in India, when there are enough obliging "aunties" who "will introduce to nice homely, educated, working girl"
Your comments ???
Read More
A wing woman accompanies a guy to a party or a bar or any social meeting place, here he identifies a couple of wopmen he would like to meet up with or talk to but doesnt have the courage or is too shy. The Wingwoman approaches the other woman and starts a casual conversation with her, then introduces the guy as her friend. If the 2 hit it off, the wing woman slowly walks out of the picture.
This concept has taken New York by storm where men are too busy or too egoistic to meet women on their own.
Do u think it can work in India ? Do we need it in India, when there are enough obliging "aunties" who "will introduce to nice homely, educated, working girl"
Your comments ???
Read More
100 scientific things to do before you die
Scientists from a UK think tank have come up with a new take on 100 things to do before you die.
Involving ideas from the renowned evolutionary biologist Richard Dawkins and astronomer Patrick Moore, the list details one hundred scientific ideas to further your intellect while at the same time having fun.
"You've only got one life, so make the most of it," say list editors Valerie Jamieson and Liz Else. "Swim in a bioluminescent lake, boil an egg with a mobile phone, or have a new species named after you."
According to Ms Jamieson and Else, the list published in the New Scientist magazine provides "the best science has to offer in the way of new experiences".
Ranging from the whacky South Pole 300 Club (where you bathe in a 200 degree Fahrenheit sauna before running to the South Pole naked in minus 100 degrees), to the slightly more accessible assisting at the birth of an animal, the scientific list has something to tempt everyone.
Other highlights include extracting your own DNA, connecting your home PC to the alien-spotting Arecibo radio telescope in Puerto Rico, going to see Galileo's middle finger in Florence and measuring the speed of light with chocolate.
Alternatively, for £35,000 you could clone your pet cat or with a little effort learn the native American language of Choctaw - with one tense for relaying information you know to be true and a second for giving unchecked information from someone else.
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Anyone have an idea on where I can find the list of 100 ? Please add in the comments space.
Involving ideas from the renowned evolutionary biologist Richard Dawkins and astronomer Patrick Moore, the list details one hundred scientific ideas to further your intellect while at the same time having fun.
"You've only got one life, so make the most of it," say list editors Valerie Jamieson and Liz Else. "Swim in a bioluminescent lake, boil an egg with a mobile phone, or have a new species named after you."
According to Ms Jamieson and Else, the list published in the New Scientist magazine provides "the best science has to offer in the way of new experiences".
Ranging from the whacky South Pole 300 Club (where you bathe in a 200 degree Fahrenheit sauna before running to the South Pole naked in minus 100 degrees), to the slightly more accessible assisting at the birth of an animal, the scientific list has something to tempt everyone.
Other highlights include extracting your own DNA, connecting your home PC to the alien-spotting Arecibo radio telescope in Puerto Rico, going to see Galileo's middle finger in Florence and measuring the speed of light with chocolate.
Alternatively, for £35,000 you could clone your pet cat or with a little effort learn the native American language of Choctaw - with one tense for relaying information you know to be true and a second for giving unchecked information from someone else.
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Anyone have an idea on where I can find the list of 100 ? Please add in the comments space.
Julia Roberts gives birth to twins
Julia Roberts gives birth to twins
Mom, Hazel Patricia and Phinnaeus Walter reportedly doing well
Monday, November 29, 2004 Posted: 12:22 AM EST (0522 GMT)
LOS ANGELES, California (CNN) -- Actress Julia Roberts gave birth to twins Sunday morning, her publicist told CNN.
Roberts, who is married to cinematographer Daniel Moder, delivered Hazel Patricia Moder and Phinnaeus Walter Moder at a hospital in Southern California, said Marcy Engleman.
"Mother and babies are doing great," she said.
Roberts, 37, married Moder two years ago.
Roberts was born in Smyrna, Georgia, and attained fame in 1990 for her portrayal of a prostitute in the sentimental romantic comedy "Pretty Woman."
Ten years later, she won the Academy Award for best actress and a Golden Globe for best actress in a drama for her work in "Erin Brockovich."
LOS ANGELES, California (CNN) -- Actress Julia Roberts gave birth to twins Sunday morning, her publicist told CNN.
Roberts, who is married to cinematographer Daniel Moder, delivered Hazel Patricia Moder and Phinnaeus Walter Moder at a hospital in Southern California, said Marcy Engleman.
"Mother and babies are doing great," she said.
Roberts, 37, married Moder two years ago.
Roberts was born in Smyrna, Georgia, and attained fame in 1990 for her portrayal of a prostitute in the sentimental romantic comedy "Pretty Woman."
Ten years later, she won the Academy Award for best actress and a Golden Globe for best actress in a drama for her work in "Erin Brockovich."
Julia Roberts attends the Academy Awards in Los Angeles in this file photo taken in February.
Mom, Hazel Patricia and Phinnaeus Walter reportedly doing well
Monday, November 29, 2004 Posted: 12:22 AM EST (0522 GMT)
LOS ANGELES, California (CNN) -- Actress Julia Roberts gave birth to twins Sunday morning, her publicist told CNN.
Roberts, who is married to cinematographer Daniel Moder, delivered Hazel Patricia Moder and Phinnaeus Walter Moder at a hospital in Southern California, said Marcy Engleman.
"Mother and babies are doing great," she said.
Roberts, 37, married Moder two years ago.
Roberts was born in Smyrna, Georgia, and attained fame in 1990 for her portrayal of a prostitute in the sentimental romantic comedy "Pretty Woman."
Ten years later, she won the Academy Award for best actress and a Golden Globe for best actress in a drama for her work in "Erin Brockovich."
LOS ANGELES, California (CNN) -- Actress Julia Roberts gave birth to twins Sunday morning, her publicist told CNN.
Roberts, who is married to cinematographer Daniel Moder, delivered Hazel Patricia Moder and Phinnaeus Walter Moder at a hospital in Southern California, said Marcy Engleman.
"Mother and babies are doing great," she said.
Roberts, 37, married Moder two years ago.
Roberts was born in Smyrna, Georgia, and attained fame in 1990 for her portrayal of a prostitute in the sentimental romantic comedy "Pretty Woman."
Ten years later, she won the Academy Award for best actress and a Golden Globe for best actress in a drama for her work in "Erin Brockovich."
Julia Roberts attends the Academy Awards in Los Angeles in this file photo taken in February.
Tommy Hilfiger 'Racist' Rumor Is Fashionable Again
Netlore Archive: False rumors alleging that fashion designer Tommy Hilfiger made racist statements on Oprah Winfrey's show are circulating (again) by email
A whole lot of nice, earnest folks who surely don't consider themselves liars are using the Internet to spread a false and libelous rumor about fashion designer Tommy Hilfiger.
It comes to them in the form of a forwarded email message. They read it, they either believe it to be true or don't care if it's true, and they pass it on to friends, associates and people they hardly even know with the click of a mouse button.
Knowingly or not, each one of these people thus becomes a link in a growing chain of lies.
Check Urban Legends for the whole debunking.
And next time, before forwarding such malicious emails, look it up. It takes all of two minutes to find the answers. Try it youself. Go to Google and do a search on the keywords "hilfiger racist."
If you're among the truly diligent, you'll eventually come across the best resource of all, and certainly the one those "in the know" would have checked out first: the Urban Legends Reference Pages.
Type "hilfiger" into the handy search box there and you'll be treated to "Tommy Rot," Barbara Mikkelson's well-researched article debunking the pernicious rumor. She explains how essentially the same story haunted designer Liz Claiborne for many years before it became attached to Tommy Hilfiger. You'll come away with a bit of historical perspective, and the truth.
You might also consider visiting Oprah Winfrey's own site to see what she has to say. Turns out she did a special segment during her January 11, 1999 show specifically to put this lie to rest. "Mr. Hilfiger has never appeared on the show," reads the synopsis. "In fact, Oprah has never even met him."
Lastly, to find out what Mr. Hilfiger himself has to say about all this, why not visit the Tommy Hilfiger Website and look for his official statement? It's all right there in black and white.
In closing, friends, let me remind you that there's a point to all this apart from the plain fact that the Hilfiger rumor is false. The point is that a lie is a lie, whether you say it with your mouth or send it in an email. The point is that you needn't bear false witness against your neighbor when the truth is only a few clicks away.
A whole lot of nice, earnest folks who surely don't consider themselves liars are using the Internet to spread a false and libelous rumor about fashion designer Tommy Hilfiger.
It comes to them in the form of a forwarded email message. They read it, they either believe it to be true or don't care if it's true, and they pass it on to friends, associates and people they hardly even know with the click of a mouse button.
Knowingly or not, each one of these people thus becomes a link in a growing chain of lies.
Check Urban Legends for the whole debunking.
And next time, before forwarding such malicious emails, look it up. It takes all of two minutes to find the answers. Try it youself. Go to Google and do a search on the keywords "hilfiger racist."
If you're among the truly diligent, you'll eventually come across the best resource of all, and certainly the one those "in the know" would have checked out first: the Urban Legends Reference Pages.
Type "hilfiger" into the handy search box there and you'll be treated to "Tommy Rot," Barbara Mikkelson's well-researched article debunking the pernicious rumor. She explains how essentially the same story haunted designer Liz Claiborne for many years before it became attached to Tommy Hilfiger. You'll come away with a bit of historical perspective, and the truth.
You might also consider visiting Oprah Winfrey's own site to see what she has to say. Turns out she did a special segment during her January 11, 1999 show specifically to put this lie to rest. "Mr. Hilfiger has never appeared on the show," reads the synopsis. "In fact, Oprah has never even met him."
Lastly, to find out what Mr. Hilfiger himself has to say about all this, why not visit the Tommy Hilfiger Website and look for his official statement? It's all right there in black and white.
In closing, friends, let me remind you that there's a point to all this apart from the plain fact that the Hilfiger rumor is false. The point is that a lie is a lie, whether you say it with your mouth or send it in an email. The point is that you needn't bear false witness against your neighbor when the truth is only a few clicks away.
Thursday, December 02, 2004
What's ours on the Net?
Put aside for the moment question of what's legally ours on the Net. Instead, consider what's ours in a less explicit and less rigorous sense. Google feels like ours (even though it legally belongs to its
shareholders) while Microsoft's new search site feels like theirs. Weblogs feel like their ours while online columns do not. The Mac feels like it's ours while Dell computers do not. Craigslist feels like it's ours while newspaper classified ads and Monster.com feel like theirs. In fact, many of us feel and act as if downloaded mp3s were ours. Is this sense of "ours" an illusion? Is it a temporary artifact that will vanish in months or years? What makes something that's not legally ours still feel that way, on the Web or off? And does this provide a way of figuring out why many of us feel so passionately about the load of bits we call the Net?
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Thanks GG
shareholders) while Microsoft's new search site feels like theirs. Weblogs feel like their ours while online columns do not. The Mac feels like it's ours while Dell computers do not. Craigslist feels like it's ours while newspaper classified ads and Monster.com feel like theirs. In fact, many of us feel and act as if downloaded mp3s were ours. Is this sense of "ours" an illusion? Is it a temporary artifact that will vanish in months or years? What makes something that's not legally ours still feel that way, on the Web or off? And does this provide a way of figuring out why many of us feel so passionately about the load of bits we call the Net?
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Thanks GG
Counting Blessings? Don't Forget to Tally What Doesn't Irk You
Counting Blessings? Don't Forget to Tally What Doesn't Irk You
Cubicle Culture by Jared Sandberg
The Wall Street Journal November 24, 2004
If you're in the average office, it's likely that someone else there has more wits, money and square footage than you. Nonetheless, you could try this Thanksgiving to be thankful for what you do have. Or, even better, try a more foolproof approach: being thankful for what you don't have.
Vige Barrie, a marketing director at a New York college, says she's thankful she no longer has to attend conferences wearing the same outfits as her colleagues. "When I worked for a large corporation in Dallas," she says, "we all had to wear cowboy hats and belt buckles."
She's thankful, too, that she doesn't have to do any more embarrassing role-playing for a company that used to require salespeople to act out the proper way to make a pitch and then watch a video of it.
Most of all, Ms. Barrie is relieved that her current employer doesn't make employees go through a rope course. That's a team-building exercise that involves a web of ropes through which employees push their skinniest colleagues, and -- with a little luck and lots of humiliation -- their largest colleagues, too. "I just have this aversion to thinking about it," Ms. Barrie says.
You can consider being thankful that you don't have to do what you don't want to do an alternate route to gratitude. Or, as some elderly relatives are wont to point out in the face of thankless whining, "At least you're not dead!"
It's the approach that even Buddha implicitly endorsed: "Let us rise up and be thankful," he said, "for if we didn't learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didn't learn a little, at least we didn't get sick, and if we got sick, at least we didn't die."
It's like thanking heaven for little hells, and the beauty of it is that you aren't left with mere gratitude. It's gratitude spiked with one of the most nirvanic and intoxicating of all emotions: relief.
M.J. Ryan, a business consultant and the author of "Attitudes of Gratitude," says that the practice of gratitude stimulates the brain's left prefrontal cortex, where hope, optimism and appreciation reside. That, in turn, tickles the limbic system into releasing feel-good endorphins. But some people -- say, jaded desk monkeys -- arrive at that feeling by way of their right neocortex, which is a hotbed of worry, frustration and pessimism. "For some of us," she says, "the habit of thinking about what's right is so noningrained that the way you get there is thinking about what's not wrong."
And that's arguably a straighter path to happiness. In a 1981 study, people who were asked to complete the sentence "I'm glad I'm not a..." five times were significantly more satisfied with their lives than the people who were asked to complete "I wish I were a..." five times. It's called "downward comparison," and it's a real upper. In fact, Ms. Ryan notes, "the people who completed the 'I wish I were a...' sentence rated themselves as significantly more dissatisfied than they had been merely minutes earlier."
Financial analyst Michael Collet says he's thankful that "no one knows how little work I actually do." And now that his reason for being thankful just evaporated, he's also grateful to live in Des Moines, which he believes offers a kind of built-in career safety net: "No one else wants to work here," he says, "so I'd have to screw up pretty badly to get fired!"
Josette Williams, a 70-year-old freelance editor of management-training texts, is grateful for the "technology" she no longer has to use. "I am old enough to be truly thankful I never have to deal with carbon paper any more," she says. In fact, let's all pause here for a moment to acknowledge that computers are easier to write with than chisels, albeit less reliable.
Lewis Regenstein, an environmental author, is grateful he doesn't have to travel much anymore because "in the time and energy you expend, you could write a book or solve the Mideast crisis." Similarly, he's happy he now has fewer meetings to attend. He once fell asleep in a meeting and drooled on his tie. "I don't normally drool, but I did on this particular occasion," he says.
Brian Winn, a district vice president for a nonprofit group, is thankful for his view of the parking lot. "It could have been a landfill," he notes. He's also grateful he has his own office so that no one notices when he takes off his shoes. (And I'm betting his colleagues also are thankful he has his own office when he takes off his shoes.)
Cliff Strickland, who used to work for a major bank, is happy he doesn't have to take seminars any more, such as one called "Leading from the Middle." As best he can remember, it was a multiday seminar in which midlevel employees were supposed to design a product and then role play managing up to their bosses to ensure the item was properly produced. "Everyone kind of played it serious," he recalls. "I was struggling with it."
It should go without saying that Mr. Strickland also expresses gratitude that in his current job "humiliation isn't part of the plan."
And if you, dear reader, work in a place where it is, here's hoping your list of what's not wrong is very long.
Cubicle Culture by Jared Sandberg
The Wall Street Journal November 24, 2004
If you're in the average office, it's likely that someone else there has more wits, money and square footage than you. Nonetheless, you could try this Thanksgiving to be thankful for what you do have. Or, even better, try a more foolproof approach: being thankful for what you don't have.
Vige Barrie, a marketing director at a New York college, says she's thankful she no longer has to attend conferences wearing the same outfits as her colleagues. "When I worked for a large corporation in Dallas," she says, "we all had to wear cowboy hats and belt buckles."
She's thankful, too, that she doesn't have to do any more embarrassing role-playing for a company that used to require salespeople to act out the proper way to make a pitch and then watch a video of it.
Most of all, Ms. Barrie is relieved that her current employer doesn't make employees go through a rope course. That's a team-building exercise that involves a web of ropes through which employees push their skinniest colleagues, and -- with a little luck and lots of humiliation -- their largest colleagues, too. "I just have this aversion to thinking about it," Ms. Barrie says.
You can consider being thankful that you don't have to do what you don't want to do an alternate route to gratitude. Or, as some elderly relatives are wont to point out in the face of thankless whining, "At least you're not dead!"
It's the approach that even Buddha implicitly endorsed: "Let us rise up and be thankful," he said, "for if we didn't learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didn't learn a little, at least we didn't get sick, and if we got sick, at least we didn't die."
It's like thanking heaven for little hells, and the beauty of it is that you aren't left with mere gratitude. It's gratitude spiked with one of the most nirvanic and intoxicating of all emotions: relief.
M.J. Ryan, a business consultant and the author of "Attitudes of Gratitude," says that the practice of gratitude stimulates the brain's left prefrontal cortex, where hope, optimism and appreciation reside. That, in turn, tickles the limbic system into releasing feel-good endorphins. But some people -- say, jaded desk monkeys -- arrive at that feeling by way of their right neocortex, which is a hotbed of worry, frustration and pessimism. "For some of us," she says, "the habit of thinking about what's right is so noningrained that the way you get there is thinking about what's not wrong."
And that's arguably a straighter path to happiness. In a 1981 study, people who were asked to complete the sentence "I'm glad I'm not a..." five times were significantly more satisfied with their lives than the people who were asked to complete "I wish I were a..." five times. It's called "downward comparison," and it's a real upper. In fact, Ms. Ryan notes, "the people who completed the 'I wish I were a...' sentence rated themselves as significantly more dissatisfied than they had been merely minutes earlier."
Financial analyst Michael Collet says he's thankful that "no one knows how little work I actually do." And now that his reason for being thankful just evaporated, he's also grateful to live in Des Moines, which he believes offers a kind of built-in career safety net: "No one else wants to work here," he says, "so I'd have to screw up pretty badly to get fired!"
Josette Williams, a 70-year-old freelance editor of management-training texts, is grateful for the "technology" she no longer has to use. "I am old enough to be truly thankful I never have to deal with carbon paper any more," she says. In fact, let's all pause here for a moment to acknowledge that computers are easier to write with than chisels, albeit less reliable.
Lewis Regenstein, an environmental author, is grateful he doesn't have to travel much anymore because "in the time and energy you expend, you could write a book or solve the Mideast crisis." Similarly, he's happy he now has fewer meetings to attend. He once fell asleep in a meeting and drooled on his tie. "I don't normally drool, but I did on this particular occasion," he says.
Brian Winn, a district vice president for a nonprofit group, is thankful for his view of the parking lot. "It could have been a landfill," he notes. He's also grateful he has his own office so that no one notices when he takes off his shoes. (And I'm betting his colleagues also are thankful he has his own office when he takes off his shoes.)
Cliff Strickland, who used to work for a major bank, is happy he doesn't have to take seminars any more, such as one called "Leading from the Middle." As best he can remember, it was a multiday seminar in which midlevel employees were supposed to design a product and then role play managing up to their bosses to ensure the item was properly produced. "Everyone kind of played it serious," he recalls. "I was struggling with it."
It should go without saying that Mr. Strickland also expresses gratitude that in his current job "humiliation isn't part of the plan."
And if you, dear reader, work in a place where it is, here's hoping your list of what's not wrong is very long.
Wednesday, November 24, 2004
100 Greatest Poems ever written
Top 10 are
[The doubt of future foes exiles my present joy]
Queen Elizabeth I
348
Emily Dickinson
712
Emily Dickinson
A Daughter of Eve
Christina Rossetti
A Nocturnal Reverie
Anne Finch, Countess of Winchilsea
A Satirical Elegy on the Death of a Late Famous General
Jonathan Swift
A Vision upon the Fairy Queen
Sir Walter Raleigh
Adam Posed
Anne Finch, Countess of Winchilsea
Athletes
Grace Cavalieri
Believe Me, If All Those Endearing Young Charms
Thomas Moore
Check out the poems themselves and the remaining 90 on http://www.poetry.com/greatestpoems/list.asp
[The doubt of future foes exiles my present joy]
Queen Elizabeth I
348
Emily Dickinson
712
Emily Dickinson
A Daughter of Eve
Christina Rossetti
A Nocturnal Reverie
Anne Finch, Countess of Winchilsea
A Satirical Elegy on the Death of a Late Famous General
Jonathan Swift
A Vision upon the Fairy Queen
Sir Walter Raleigh
Adam Posed
Anne Finch, Countess of Winchilsea
Athletes
Grace Cavalieri
Believe Me, If All Those Endearing Young Charms
Thomas Moore
Check out the poems themselves and the remaining 90 on http://www.poetry.com/greatestpoems/list.asp
How the Million bucks on Reality shows actually works out
From its first publicity release regarding For Love Or Money, NBC has played up the angle that the winning bachelorette will collect a Survivor-sized $1 million prize if she chooses money instead of love. However, astute viewers on the Reality TV World message boards have discovered that NBC's claim, like bachelor Rob Campos' claim that there was "absolutely nothing irregular" about his service in the Marines, is seriously misleading.
NBC will indeed pay the selected bachelorette $1 million ... but only at the state-lottery-like rate of $25,000 per year over 40 years (if, indeed, she's still alive 40 years from now). NBC is offering a lump-sum option to the lucky lady, if she prefers to get the present value of her winnings now, but it has not revealed the anticipated future interest rate at which NBC would discount the winnings to determine the lump sum.
If the rate was similar to the current level of interest rates -- say, 5% -- then the winner would still be able to abandon Rob on the altar and make off with about $450,000 -- less than half of the reported million, but still comparable to other reality shows. However, if NBC not unreasonably figures that future interest rates would bounce back to historic levels and used a higher rate -- say, 8% -- the winner would come out with less than $325,000 -- less than a third of the million. And, if NBC is really chintzy, it might pick an even-higher discount rate -- say, 10% or 11%.
In other words, the winner won't get a million dollars, regardless of NBC's claims to the contrary. She won't even get a half-million. She may be lucky to get a quarter-million. On the other hand, if she chooses the cash, however little it is, she won't get stuck with Rob. Therefore, we think the "hard choice" is still an easy call, even if the cash prize were only a U.S. savings bond.
NBC will indeed pay the selected bachelorette $1 million ... but only at the state-lottery-like rate of $25,000 per year over 40 years (if, indeed, she's still alive 40 years from now). NBC is offering a lump-sum option to the lucky lady, if she prefers to get the present value of her winnings now, but it has not revealed the anticipated future interest rate at which NBC would discount the winnings to determine the lump sum.
If the rate was similar to the current level of interest rates -- say, 5% -- then the winner would still be able to abandon Rob on the altar and make off with about $450,000 -- less than half of the reported million, but still comparable to other reality shows. However, if NBC not unreasonably figures that future interest rates would bounce back to historic levels and used a higher rate -- say, 8% -- the winner would come out with less than $325,000 -- less than a third of the million. And, if NBC is really chintzy, it might pick an even-higher discount rate -- say, 10% or 11%.
In other words, the winner won't get a million dollars, regardless of NBC's claims to the contrary. She won't even get a half-million. She may be lucky to get a quarter-million. On the other hand, if she chooses the cash, however little it is, she won't get stuck with Rob. Therefore, we think the "hard choice" is still an easy call, even if the cash prize were only a U.S. savings bond.
Tuesday, November 23, 2004
For Love or Money 4 - Spoiler
Hey,
R u like me ?
do u watch just the last 5 minutes of reality shows, just to see who gets eliminated or fired ?
If so, then heres the spoiler for Season 4 of "For Love or Money" (Its true because this comes from the US where its already been aired, ages ago. - aah, the wonders of internet)
Rachel & Amanda are both brought back for Part 4. No major fireworks on screen, so if thats what u were going to watch it for, avoid!
At the end of first episode the 15 guys have to chose between the 2. 8 choos Rachel, 7 choose Amanda, so Amanda has to leave with the 7 guys who chose her. They are eliminated.
Last episode Rachel chooses Caleb, who also chooses her. His cheque is worth $1. She again choses Caleb over the money.
But apparently one month after the show screened in the US, they split up and Rachel is currently considering posing for Playboy.
Preston and PJ are supposedly still going around.
Now arent you Indian viewers, glad abt this info. Now u save at least 10 hours of watching this inane show, just because u have to know who got thrown out this time. Use this extra time productively to cook up a special something for dinner.
Cheerio
R u like me ?
do u watch just the last 5 minutes of reality shows, just to see who gets eliminated or fired ?
If so, then heres the spoiler for Season 4 of "For Love or Money" (Its true because this comes from the US where its already been aired, ages ago. - aah, the wonders of internet)
Rachel & Amanda are both brought back for Part 4. No major fireworks on screen, so if thats what u were going to watch it for, avoid!
At the end of first episode the 15 guys have to chose between the 2. 8 choos Rachel, 7 choose Amanda, so Amanda has to leave with the 7 guys who chose her. They are eliminated.
Last episode Rachel chooses Caleb, who also chooses her. His cheque is worth $1. She again choses Caleb over the money.
But apparently one month after the show screened in the US, they split up and Rachel is currently considering posing for Playboy.
Preston and PJ are supposedly still going around.
Now arent you Indian viewers, glad abt this info. Now u save at least 10 hours of watching this inane show, just because u have to know who got thrown out this time. Use this extra time productively to cook up a special something for dinner.
Cheerio
Inside Scoop on "the Simple Life"
It sounds like such an easy thing to do: take two pampered, spoiled, beautiful young women to rural America and film them living "The Simple Life." However, as Fox and Bunim-Murray Productions are learning, there is nothing simple about it ... and keeping it a secret isn't simple either. RealityTVWorld.com has been told some exclusive details of events during filming of the upcoming Fox reality TV show The Simple Life, starring the socialite team of 22-year-old hotel heiress Paris Hilton and 21-year-old music heiress Nicole RIchie.
to make sure that a local family would welcome them, Fox built an addition onto the house of the people with whom they were staying, at Fox's expense. No mobile homes for Paris and Nicole!
Paris and Nicole's skimpy attire has certainly drawn attention ... and criticism, although mostly behind their backs. One local referred to them as the "nearly naked models." Apparently, many of the locals are giving them a wide berth -- but at least their looks impress the teenage boys (and their underlying wealth doesn't hurt any, either). Needless to say, the teenage girls are jealous.
Paris and Nicole have been stuck with an old blue truck for use when they are being filmed. The truck is a piece of junk and has broken down several times. However, when they aren't being filmed, the two vixens apparently have use of an SUV. Not exactly the simple life, after all. In fact, another local referred to the entire venture as "bogus bullsh--."
Fox's The Simple Life, starring Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie -- a show which may have pushed the boundaries of reality TV too far. Under closer examination, some of the sequences on The Simple Life seem to be nothing more than improvisational comedy, no different from a Whose Line Is It Anyway? set in the Ozarks with two amateur comediennes.
Take, for instance, the scene in the show's second episode where Paris and Nicole, while working at a dairy, fill glass milk bottles with a hose, while Danny Council, the dairy farmer who owns "Danny's Dairy Farm," pushes them to get more bottles completed for a rapidly-approaching shipment on a delivery truck. Ultimately, according to the sequence as aired, Paris and Nicole were pouring water from a bucket into the bottles to deceive Danny and fill their quota.
Our summary of the episode notes that Paris and Nicole were told by Danny that the milk was unpasteurized and asks whether it's legal to sell unpasteurized milk in Arkansas. The answer? No.
According to the Arkansas Department of Health, all cow's milk sold in the state must be pasteurized. A dairy can sell up to 100 gallons of unpasteurized goat's milk in a month, but customers for that milk must come to the farm to buy it. Thus, there is no way that unpasteurized milk could be bottled for delivery ... and, anyway, this dairy farm just had cows, so all of its milk would have to be pasteurized before sale. Under state law, either Danny should be in jail, or the only thing "real" about this scene was that it "really" aired on TV.
One of our favorite writers, Phil Rosenthal of the Chicago Sun-Times, noted that People magazine talked to dairyman Danny Council. Should Danny be in jail? No, because the scene was completely staged. Said Danny, "None of that [milk] meets health department standards. It was totally for the show." In fact, even the presence of the glass bottles that Paris and Nicole filled was fake -- the show supplied them, apparently because glass bottles are more in keeping with the "look" that the producers wanted for rural Arkansas.
So ... the bottle-filling, the delivery deadline, the devious filling of the bottles with water ... every bit of the scene ... was all play-acting by Paris, Nicole and Danny. We fail to see how this is different from improvisational acting.
Although most of the show's participants are bound by confidentiality agreements and aren't talking, we find it difficult to believe that many of the other events portrayed in the show so far are any more "real" than this scene was. In fact, although The Simple Life was billed as a reality-sitcom, it more closely resembles scripted comedy, since even such choices about what activities to perform and what type of props to use seem to be made by the producers ... and, perhaps, the writers.
Now we know why the local teenage girls were jealous of Paris Hilton during her stay in Altus, Arkansas to film Fox's The Simple Life.
The New York Post reports that, during filming, 22-year-old Paris had a "fling" with 18-year-old Trae Lindley, at the time a high-school senior. Only problem: Trae, who ranked third in his high-school class and had been named homecoming king, had a long-time steady girlfriend: Carolyn Cains, the homecoming queen. However, to Trae, the choice between the two was easy; he wanted to see Paris in the springtime.
Paris met Trae during one of her early "day jobs" for the show (which was largely filmed in May 2003): working in the Lakeside Food Mart. She picked him out of a crowd of kids in the store and asked him to "'stay here and talk awhile,'" he said. "I was too nervous at the time to remember what I was talking about. I couldn't even remember what was said after I was done talking to her." But Paris had enough wits about her to ask for his phone number before he left.
Almost immediately thereafter, Trae and Paris were having two-hour phone conversations, and, in his words, "people knew she had the hots for me and I had the hots for her." Exit Carolyn, enter Paris.
During filming, Trae took Paris to the movies, the mall and the bowling alley ... ending up with plenty of camera time while locking lips with the hotel heiress. Paris came to his high school graduation, sparking a near-brawl with Carolyn and her friends, and went out with him to local restaurants.
A manager of Fat Tuesday's decribed Trae and Paris as "really cute," calling their relationship "more of an innocent, teenage-type relationship." In other words, except for the fight with the "other woman," it had little in common with Paris' much more public relationship with Rick Salomon, the married owner of "Beverly Hills Pimps & Hos" and Paris' sexual partner on the infamous sex tape on the Internet.
While this characterization may be hard to believe, even Trae's parents have nice things to say about Paris and her co-star Nicole Richie, whom they entertained for dinner. Trae's father George, who owns a real-estate company in nearby Ozark, said that "they were very well-mannered. Paris was very nice, very sweet and not like she is portrayed in magazines." Trae's mother Tammy added that "they were very normal when they came to dinner. They thanked us." Nice to know that Paris and Nicole still retain a semblance of good manners when not on videotape or drugs.
Ultimately, Trae had to make a choice. When Paris returned to L.A., she offered to take Trae with her and to find him work as a model. But Trae, who would have been giving up a full scholarship to the University of Arkansas and doesn't have a multi-million dollar trust fund to fall back on, showed that his parents raised him with good sense by turning her down and heading for college instead.
Trae has remained in contact with Paris, although contact has become harder since the sex-tape scandal broke. Says Trae, "When I did speak to her, she was really stressed out and said she can't leave the house anymore, she can't have fun. I feel embarrassed for her. I feel like she got a lot of crap from it and I feel sorry for a lot of what she's going through."
Shooting on Fox's controversial The Simple Life reality show, starring LA socialites-dilletantes Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie, in Altus, Arkansas wrapped up a week early, apparently due to troubles between the "stars" and the crew, according to a RealityTVWorld.com poster from the area. According to this poster, Paris and Nicole threatened to quit the show after being reprimanded for spending four hours on the phone. Although the show still had planned to shoot for two more weeks, Paris and Nicole spent little time with the locals during the next week, and the production came to an unscheduled end that Friday.
, the producers and the crew clearly seem to have been "loathed" by the locals, for their apparent intent to portray the Ozarks and Arkansas as one step regressed from the Clampett family in The Beverly Hillbillies. The Fort Smith (AR) Times Record reports that the producers, for example, set up a phony "grape-stomping" booth at the Altus Spring Gala for Paris and Nicole (who wisely declined to take part) and filmed unkempt areas around town whenever possible.
Even an 11-year-old girl watching the filming got the point, stating that the producers "are making fun of us. ... They were saying, ‘They’re so totally poor,'" Only the mayor of Altus, who still hoped (forlornly?) that the show would portray Altus in a positive light, seemed comfortable with the filming.
As for Paris and Nicole, yes, they may be beautiful and spoiled, but they at least seemed to be open to trying new things and avoiding rural stereotypes ... certainly more so than the producers and crew were
In The Simple Life, the only thing "real" appears to be the slender, tanned, silicone-free bodies of Paris and Nicole. Will that be enough to compensate for the most unreal "reality" show to ever hit the U.S. airwaves?
to make sure that a local family would welcome them, Fox built an addition onto the house of the people with whom they were staying, at Fox's expense. No mobile homes for Paris and Nicole!
Paris and Nicole's skimpy attire has certainly drawn attention ... and criticism, although mostly behind their backs. One local referred to them as the "nearly naked models." Apparently, many of the locals are giving them a wide berth -- but at least their looks impress the teenage boys (and their underlying wealth doesn't hurt any, either). Needless to say, the teenage girls are jealous.
Paris and Nicole have been stuck with an old blue truck for use when they are being filmed. The truck is a piece of junk and has broken down several times. However, when they aren't being filmed, the two vixens apparently have use of an SUV. Not exactly the simple life, after all. In fact, another local referred to the entire venture as "bogus bullsh--."
Fox's The Simple Life, starring Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie -- a show which may have pushed the boundaries of reality TV too far. Under closer examination, some of the sequences on The Simple Life seem to be nothing more than improvisational comedy, no different from a Whose Line Is It Anyway? set in the Ozarks with two amateur comediennes.
Take, for instance, the scene in the show's second episode where Paris and Nicole, while working at a dairy, fill glass milk bottles with a hose, while Danny Council, the dairy farmer who owns "Danny's Dairy Farm," pushes them to get more bottles completed for a rapidly-approaching shipment on a delivery truck. Ultimately, according to the sequence as aired, Paris and Nicole were pouring water from a bucket into the bottles to deceive Danny and fill their quota.
Our summary of the episode notes that Paris and Nicole were told by Danny that the milk was unpasteurized and asks whether it's legal to sell unpasteurized milk in Arkansas. The answer? No.
According to the Arkansas Department of Health, all cow's milk sold in the state must be pasteurized. A dairy can sell up to 100 gallons of unpasteurized goat's milk in a month, but customers for that milk must come to the farm to buy it. Thus, there is no way that unpasteurized milk could be bottled for delivery ... and, anyway, this dairy farm just had cows, so all of its milk would have to be pasteurized before sale. Under state law, either Danny should be in jail, or the only thing "real" about this scene was that it "really" aired on TV.
One of our favorite writers, Phil Rosenthal of the Chicago Sun-Times, noted that People magazine talked to dairyman Danny Council. Should Danny be in jail? No, because the scene was completely staged. Said Danny, "None of that [milk] meets health department standards. It was totally for the show." In fact, even the presence of the glass bottles that Paris and Nicole filled was fake -- the show supplied them, apparently because glass bottles are more in keeping with the "look" that the producers wanted for rural Arkansas.
So ... the bottle-filling, the delivery deadline, the devious filling of the bottles with water ... every bit of the scene ... was all play-acting by Paris, Nicole and Danny. We fail to see how this is different from improvisational acting.
Although most of the show's participants are bound by confidentiality agreements and aren't talking, we find it difficult to believe that many of the other events portrayed in the show so far are any more "real" than this scene was. In fact, although The Simple Life was billed as a reality-sitcom, it more closely resembles scripted comedy, since even such choices about what activities to perform and what type of props to use seem to be made by the producers ... and, perhaps, the writers.
Now we know why the local teenage girls were jealous of Paris Hilton during her stay in Altus, Arkansas to film Fox's The Simple Life.
The New York Post reports that, during filming, 22-year-old Paris had a "fling" with 18-year-old Trae Lindley, at the time a high-school senior. Only problem: Trae, who ranked third in his high-school class and had been named homecoming king, had a long-time steady girlfriend: Carolyn Cains, the homecoming queen. However, to Trae, the choice between the two was easy; he wanted to see Paris in the springtime.
Paris met Trae during one of her early "day jobs" for the show (which was largely filmed in May 2003): working in the Lakeside Food Mart. She picked him out of a crowd of kids in the store and asked him to "'stay here and talk awhile,'" he said. "I was too nervous at the time to remember what I was talking about. I couldn't even remember what was said after I was done talking to her." But Paris had enough wits about her to ask for his phone number before he left.
Almost immediately thereafter, Trae and Paris were having two-hour phone conversations, and, in his words, "people knew she had the hots for me and I had the hots for her." Exit Carolyn, enter Paris.
During filming, Trae took Paris to the movies, the mall and the bowling alley ... ending up with plenty of camera time while locking lips with the hotel heiress. Paris came to his high school graduation, sparking a near-brawl with Carolyn and her friends, and went out with him to local restaurants.
A manager of Fat Tuesday's decribed Trae and Paris as "really cute," calling their relationship "more of an innocent, teenage-type relationship." In other words, except for the fight with the "other woman," it had little in common with Paris' much more public relationship with Rick Salomon, the married owner of "Beverly Hills Pimps & Hos" and Paris' sexual partner on the infamous sex tape on the Internet.
While this characterization may be hard to believe, even Trae's parents have nice things to say about Paris and her co-star Nicole Richie, whom they entertained for dinner. Trae's father George, who owns a real-estate company in nearby Ozark, said that "they were very well-mannered. Paris was very nice, very sweet and not like she is portrayed in magazines." Trae's mother Tammy added that "they were very normal when they came to dinner. They thanked us." Nice to know that Paris and Nicole still retain a semblance of good manners when not on videotape or drugs.
Ultimately, Trae had to make a choice. When Paris returned to L.A., she offered to take Trae with her and to find him work as a model. But Trae, who would have been giving up a full scholarship to the University of Arkansas and doesn't have a multi-million dollar trust fund to fall back on, showed that his parents raised him with good sense by turning her down and heading for college instead.
Trae has remained in contact with Paris, although contact has become harder since the sex-tape scandal broke. Says Trae, "When I did speak to her, she was really stressed out and said she can't leave the house anymore, she can't have fun. I feel embarrassed for her. I feel like she got a lot of crap from it and I feel sorry for a lot of what she's going through."
Shooting on Fox's controversial The Simple Life reality show, starring LA socialites-dilletantes Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie, in Altus, Arkansas wrapped up a week early, apparently due to troubles between the "stars" and the crew, according to a RealityTVWorld.com poster from the area. According to this poster, Paris and Nicole threatened to quit the show after being reprimanded for spending four hours on the phone. Although the show still had planned to shoot for two more weeks, Paris and Nicole spent little time with the locals during the next week, and the production came to an unscheduled end that Friday.
, the producers and the crew clearly seem to have been "loathed" by the locals, for their apparent intent to portray the Ozarks and Arkansas as one step regressed from the Clampett family in The Beverly Hillbillies. The Fort Smith (AR) Times Record reports that the producers, for example, set up a phony "grape-stomping" booth at the Altus Spring Gala for Paris and Nicole (who wisely declined to take part) and filmed unkempt areas around town whenever possible.
Even an 11-year-old girl watching the filming got the point, stating that the producers "are making fun of us. ... They were saying, ‘They’re so totally poor,'" Only the mayor of Altus, who still hoped (forlornly?) that the show would portray Altus in a positive light, seemed comfortable with the filming.
As for Paris and Nicole, yes, they may be beautiful and spoiled, but they at least seemed to be open to trying new things and avoiding rural stereotypes ... certainly more so than the producers and crew were
In The Simple Life, the only thing "real" appears to be the slender, tanned, silicone-free bodies of Paris and Nicole. Will that be enough to compensate for the most unreal "reality" show to ever hit the U.S. airwaves?
Wednesday, November 17, 2004
The best films you've never seen
The Los Angeles Times film critic was in an L.A.-area bookstore and
stopped by the DVD section. There, prominently featured, was a display
devoted to the films in his new book, "Never Coming to a Theater Near
You".
"It was like they'd made a movie out of my book," he says, still in
wonderment, in a phone interview from his southern California home.
Turan doesn't expect bookstores and video stores to routinely build
shrines to his recommendations. He does hope, however, that "Never
Coming to a Theater Near You" serves as a handbook for curious film
lovers who, in looking for a good film, need a way to tunnel through
heaps of dreck in order to find worthy films that just didn't get much
attention the first time around.
"I envision this book to be a guide for the perplexed -- to be like a
video store in your mind," he says. "People are so hungry for the kind
of films this book represents, entertaining works that don't talk down
to them."
The 150-plus movies Turan writes about in "Never Coming" -- an edited
collection of his reviews of the past decade or so -- are ones he
describes as "indelible ... I would see any of these again in a moment."
The book is organized for easy browsing at a video store, divided into
sections on English-language films, foreign-language films,
documentaries, classics and retrospectives.
Turan isn't necessarily biased against studio films, or in favor of
obscure independent works, complex foreign-language films or
good-for-you documentaries.
Indeed, many of the films he highlights had top-notch casts and earned
good reviews at the time. However, for whatever reason, they simply
slipped through the cracks at the multiplex -- and,even when they
emerged at the video store six months later, were buried under a sea of
blockbuster effluvia.
Among the better-known films reviewed in the book are "Ronin," a
crackling thriller starring Robert De Niro and directed by John
Frankenheimer (with some "impressive car chases," Turan writes with
understatement); "High Fidelity," the John Cusack film based on the Nick
Hornby novel about music and relationships; "Spirited Away," the
already-classic work of Japanese animation; "Theremin: An Electronic
Odyssey," a documentary about the inventor of the strange
electronic instrument; and "The Third Man," director Carol Reed's
classic work, from a script by Graham Greene, set -- and filmed -- in
the bombed-out rubble of postwar Vienna (&featuring Orson Welles' great
"cuckoo clock" speech).
Turan also singles out lesser-known works such as "Pipe Dream" (with
Martin Donovan and Mary-Louise Parker), the French film "Dry Cleaning"
and the documentary "East Side Story" -- the
latter a particular favorite.
"It sounds like parody," says Turan of this film, which is about the
socialist musicals of the USSR and Iron Curtain countries: films with
titles such as "Tractor Drivers" and "No Cheating Darling," made under
the supervision of allegedly humorless apparatchiks. Stalin was actually
a fan of the musicals.
"There is stuff at which your jaw just drops, and yet they were hugely
popular," says Turan. "It's an interesting corner of film history."
Though the book doesn't have any particular theme, one striking thread
is the names that seem to appear over and over, such as writer and
director David Mamet, or now-famous people who were unknown at the
time they made these small films, such as "Lord of the Rings" director
Peter Jackson (represented by "Heavenly Creatures") and Oscar winner
Russell Crowe (who was in the 1992 Australian film "Proof").
"It's great to see talented people have success," says Turan. Moreover,
their films are accessible even to people who don't live near a
well-stocked video store, thanks to Netflix, Amazon.com and other
Web-based services, he says.
Turan, who's been the L.A. Times film critic for more than a decade,
knows his picks are subjective. ("God doesn't talk to me," he says.) If
ticket buyers want to enjoy car-exploding
action films, that's their prerogative.
"I never try to change anyone's mind," he says. "It can't be done. Even
critics don't want to
acknowledge how personal their taste is."
But he can't help being frustrated at most of the fare he's had to watch
over the years. Yes, he gets paid to do it, but the work can be soul
deadening after awhile.
"It's not just that we see bad films, but bad films of a type we've seen
so many times before," says Turan.
The films in "Never Coming to a Theater Near You," he says, make his
profession worthwhile.
"These movies fulfill what films can do," he says. "The films in the
book are ones that saved my life."
stopped by the DVD section. There, prominently featured, was a display
devoted to the films in his new book, "Never Coming to a Theater Near
You".
"It was like they'd made a movie out of my book," he says, still in
wonderment, in a phone interview from his southern California home.
Turan doesn't expect bookstores and video stores to routinely build
shrines to his recommendations. He does hope, however, that "Never
Coming to a Theater Near You" serves as a handbook for curious film
lovers who, in looking for a good film, need a way to tunnel through
heaps of dreck in order to find worthy films that just didn't get much
attention the first time around.
"I envision this book to be a guide for the perplexed -- to be like a
video store in your mind," he says. "People are so hungry for the kind
of films this book represents, entertaining works that don't talk down
to them."
The 150-plus movies Turan writes about in "Never Coming" -- an edited
collection of his reviews of the past decade or so -- are ones he
describes as "indelible ... I would see any of these again in a moment."
The book is organized for easy browsing at a video store, divided into
sections on English-language films, foreign-language films,
documentaries, classics and retrospectives.
Turan isn't necessarily biased against studio films, or in favor of
obscure independent works, complex foreign-language films or
good-for-you documentaries.
Indeed, many of the films he highlights had top-notch casts and earned
good reviews at the time. However, for whatever reason, they simply
slipped through the cracks at the multiplex -- and,even when they
emerged at the video store six months later, were buried under a sea of
blockbuster effluvia.
Among the better-known films reviewed in the book are "Ronin," a
crackling thriller starring Robert De Niro and directed by John
Frankenheimer (with some "impressive car chases," Turan writes with
understatement); "High Fidelity," the John Cusack film based on the Nick
Hornby novel about music and relationships; "Spirited Away," the
already-classic work of Japanese animation; "Theremin: An Electronic
Odyssey," a documentary about the inventor of the strange
electronic instrument; and "The Third Man," director Carol Reed's
classic work, from a script by Graham Greene, set -- and filmed -- in
the bombed-out rubble of postwar Vienna (&featuring Orson Welles' great
"cuckoo clock" speech).
Turan also singles out lesser-known works such as "Pipe Dream" (with
Martin Donovan and Mary-Louise Parker), the French film "Dry Cleaning"
and the documentary "East Side Story" -- the
latter a particular favorite.
"It sounds like parody," says Turan of this film, which is about the
socialist musicals of the USSR and Iron Curtain countries: films with
titles such as "Tractor Drivers" and "No Cheating Darling," made under
the supervision of allegedly humorless apparatchiks. Stalin was actually
a fan of the musicals.
"There is stuff at which your jaw just drops, and yet they were hugely
popular," says Turan. "It's an interesting corner of film history."
Though the book doesn't have any particular theme, one striking thread
is the names that seem to appear over and over, such as writer and
director David Mamet, or now-famous people who were unknown at the
time they made these small films, such as "Lord of the Rings" director
Peter Jackson (represented by "Heavenly Creatures") and Oscar winner
Russell Crowe (who was in the 1992 Australian film "Proof").
"It's great to see talented people have success," says Turan. Moreover,
their films are accessible even to people who don't live near a
well-stocked video store, thanks to Netflix, Amazon.com and other
Web-based services, he says.
Turan, who's been the L.A. Times film critic for more than a decade,
knows his picks are subjective. ("God doesn't talk to me," he says.) If
ticket buyers want to enjoy car-exploding
action films, that's their prerogative.
"I never try to change anyone's mind," he says. "It can't be done. Even
critics don't want to
acknowledge how personal their taste is."
But he can't help being frustrated at most of the fare he's had to watch
over the years. Yes, he gets paid to do it, but the work can be soul
deadening after awhile.
"It's not just that we see bad films, but bad films of a type we've seen
so many times before," says Turan.
The films in "Never Coming to a Theater Near You," he says, make his
profession worthwhile.
"These movies fulfill what films can do," he says. "The films in the
book are ones that saved my life."
Your Hobbit name & your elven name
http://www.chriswetherell.com/hobbit/
pretty neat.....
Thanks Nitin for sending this in.
pretty neat.....
Thanks Nitin for sending this in.
Poems of Donald Rumsfeld
Thanks to Madhukar :
One would have never suspected that this guy has the gift of the Muse, and the heart of a poet!!!
as the Slate site where I discovered this work of art, states:
Rumsfeld's poetry is paradoxical: It uses playful language to address the most somber subjects: war, terrorism, mortality. Much of it is about indirection and evasion: He never faces his subjects head on but weaves away, letting inversions and repetitions confuse and beguile. His work, with its dedication to the fractured rhythms of the plainspoken vernacular, is reminiscent of William Carlos Williams'. Some readers may find that Rumsfeld's gift for offhand, quotidian pronouncements is as entrancing as Frank O'Hara's.
madhukar
================================
The Unknown
As we know,
There are known knowns.
There are things we know we know.
We also know
There are known unknowns.
That is to say
We know there are some things
We do not know.
But there are also unknown unknowns,
The ones we don't know
We don't know.
—Feb. 12, 2002, Department of Defense news briefing
Glass Box
You know, it's the old glass box at the—
At the gas station,
Where you're using those little things
Trying to pick up the prize,
And you can't find it.
It's—
And it's all these arms are going down in there,
And so you keep dropping it
And picking it up again and moving it,
But—
Some of you are probably too young to remember those—
Those glass boxes,
But—
But they used to have them
At all the gas stations
When I was a kid.
—Dec. 6, 2001, Department of Defense news briefing
A Confession
Once in a while,
I'm standing here, doing something.
And I think,
"What in the world am I doing here?"
It's a big surprise.
—May 16, 2001, interview with the New York Times
Happenings
You're going to be told lots of things.
You get told things every day that don't happen.
It doesn't seem to bother people, they don't—
It's printed in the press.
The world thinks all these things happen.
They never happened.
Everyone's so eager to get the story
Before in fact the story's there
That the world is constantly being fed
Things that haven't happened.
All I can tell you is,
It hasn't happened.
It's going to happen.
—Feb. 28, 2003, Department of Defense briefing
The Digital Revolution
Oh my goodness gracious,
What you can buy off the Internet
In terms of overhead photography!
A trained ape can know an awful lot
Of what is going on in this world,
Just by punching on his mouse
For a relatively modest cost!
—June 9, 2001, following European trip
The Situation
Things will not be necessarily continuous.
The fact that they are something other than perfectly continuous
Ought not to be characterized as a pause.
There will be some things that people will see.
There will be some things that people won't see.
And life goes on.
—Oct. 12, 2001, Department of Defense news briefing
Clarity
I think what you'll find,
I think what you'll find is,
Whatever it is we do substantively,
There will be near-perfect clarity
As to what it is.
And it will be known,
And it will be known to the Congress,
And it will be known to you,
Probably before we decide it,
But it will be known.
—Feb. 28, 2003, Department of Defense briefing
One would have never suspected that this guy has the gift of the Muse, and the heart of a poet!!!
as the Slate site where I discovered this work of art, states:
Rumsfeld's poetry is paradoxical: It uses playful language to address the most somber subjects: war, terrorism, mortality. Much of it is about indirection and evasion: He never faces his subjects head on but weaves away, letting inversions and repetitions confuse and beguile. His work, with its dedication to the fractured rhythms of the plainspoken vernacular, is reminiscent of William Carlos Williams'. Some readers may find that Rumsfeld's gift for offhand, quotidian pronouncements is as entrancing as Frank O'Hara's.
madhukar
================================
The Unknown
As we know,
There are known knowns.
There are things we know we know.
We also know
There are known unknowns.
That is to say
We know there are some things
We do not know.
But there are also unknown unknowns,
The ones we don't know
We don't know.
—Feb. 12, 2002, Department of Defense news briefing
Glass Box
You know, it's the old glass box at the—
At the gas station,
Where you're using those little things
Trying to pick up the prize,
And you can't find it.
It's—
And it's all these arms are going down in there,
And so you keep dropping it
And picking it up again and moving it,
But—
Some of you are probably too young to remember those—
Those glass boxes,
But—
But they used to have them
At all the gas stations
When I was a kid.
—Dec. 6, 2001, Department of Defense news briefing
A Confession
Once in a while,
I'm standing here, doing something.
And I think,
"What in the world am I doing here?"
It's a big surprise.
—May 16, 2001, interview with the New York Times
Happenings
You're going to be told lots of things.
You get told things every day that don't happen.
It doesn't seem to bother people, they don't—
It's printed in the press.
The world thinks all these things happen.
They never happened.
Everyone's so eager to get the story
Before in fact the story's there
That the world is constantly being fed
Things that haven't happened.
All I can tell you is,
It hasn't happened.
It's going to happen.
—Feb. 28, 2003, Department of Defense briefing
The Digital Revolution
Oh my goodness gracious,
What you can buy off the Internet
In terms of overhead photography!
A trained ape can know an awful lot
Of what is going on in this world,
Just by punching on his mouse
For a relatively modest cost!
—June 9, 2001, following European trip
The Situation
Things will not be necessarily continuous.
The fact that they are something other than perfectly continuous
Ought not to be characterized as a pause.
There will be some things that people will see.
There will be some things that people won't see.
And life goes on.
—Oct. 12, 2001, Department of Defense news briefing
Clarity
I think what you'll find,
I think what you'll find is,
Whatever it is we do substantively,
There will be near-perfect clarity
As to what it is.
And it will be known,
And it will be known to the Congress,
And it will be known to you,
Probably before we decide it,
But it will be known.
—Feb. 28, 2003, Department of Defense briefing
Saturday, November 06, 2004
Not Just a Mom
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Not "Just a Mom"
------------
A woman named Emily renewing her driver's license at the County Clerk's
office was asked by the woman recorder to state her occupation. She
hesitated, uncertain how to classify herself.
"What I mean is," explained the recorder, "do you have a job, or are you
just a...
"Of course I have a job," snapped Emily. "I'm a mother."
"We don't list 'mother' as an occupation... 'housewife' covers it," said
the recorder emphatically.
I forgot all about her story until one day I found myself in the same
situation, this time at our own Town Hall. The Clerk was obviously a
career woman, poised, efficient, and possessed of a high sounding title
like, "Official Interrogator" or "Town Registrar." "What is your
occupation?" she probed.
What made me say it, I do not know... The words simply popped out. "I'm
a Research Associate in the field of Child Development and Human
Relations."
The clerk paused, ballpoint pen frozen in midair, and looked up as
though she had not heard right.
I repeated the title slowly, emphasizing the most significant words.
Then I stared with wonder as my pronouncement was written in bold, black
ink on the official questionnaire.
"Might I ask," said the clerk with new interest, "just what you do in
your field?"
Coolly, without any trace of fluster in my voice, I heard myself reply,
"I have a continuing program of research, (what mother doesn't), in the
laboratory and in the field, (normally I would have said indoors and
out). I'm working for my Masters, (the whole darned family), and already
have four credits, (all daughters). Of course, the job is one of the
most demanding in the humanities, (any mother care to disagree?) and I
often work 14 hours a day, (24 is more like it). But the job is more
challenging than most run-of-the-mill careers and the rewards are more
of a satisfaction rather than just money."
There was an increasing note of respect in the clerk's voice as she
completed the form, stood up, and personally ushered me to the door.
As I drove into our driveway, buoyed up by my glamorous new career, I
was greeted by my lab assistants - ages 13, 7, and 3. Upstairs I could
hear our new experimental model, (a 6 month old baby), in the
child-development program, testing out a new vocal pattern.
I felt triumphant! I had scored a beat on bureaucracy! And I had gone on
the official records as someone more distinguished and indispensable to
mankind than "just another mother."
Motherhood...What a glorious career! Especially when there's a title on
the door.
Does this make grandmothers "Senior Research Associates in the field of
Child Development and Human Relations" and great grandmothers "Executive
Senior Research Associates"? I think so!!!
I also think it makes Aunts "Associate Research Assistants".
Not "Just a Mom"
------------
A woman named Emily renewing her driver's license at the County Clerk's
office was asked by the woman recorder to state her occupation. She
hesitated, uncertain how to classify herself.
"What I mean is," explained the recorder, "do you have a job, or are you
just a...
"Of course I have a job," snapped Emily. "I'm a mother."
"We don't list 'mother' as an occupation... 'housewife' covers it," said
the recorder emphatically.
I forgot all about her story until one day I found myself in the same
situation, this time at our own Town Hall. The Clerk was obviously a
career woman, poised, efficient, and possessed of a high sounding title
like, "Official Interrogator" or "Town Registrar." "What is your
occupation?" she probed.
What made me say it, I do not know... The words simply popped out. "I'm
a Research Associate in the field of Child Development and Human
Relations."
The clerk paused, ballpoint pen frozen in midair, and looked up as
though she had not heard right.
I repeated the title slowly, emphasizing the most significant words.
Then I stared with wonder as my pronouncement was written in bold, black
ink on the official questionnaire.
"Might I ask," said the clerk with new interest, "just what you do in
your field?"
Coolly, without any trace of fluster in my voice, I heard myself reply,
"I have a continuing program of research, (what mother doesn't), in the
laboratory and in the field, (normally I would have said indoors and
out). I'm working for my Masters, (the whole darned family), and already
have four credits, (all daughters). Of course, the job is one of the
most demanding in the humanities, (any mother care to disagree?) and I
often work 14 hours a day, (24 is more like it). But the job is more
challenging than most run-of-the-mill careers and the rewards are more
of a satisfaction rather than just money."
There was an increasing note of respect in the clerk's voice as she
completed the form, stood up, and personally ushered me to the door.
As I drove into our driveway, buoyed up by my glamorous new career, I
was greeted by my lab assistants - ages 13, 7, and 3. Upstairs I could
hear our new experimental model, (a 6 month old baby), in the
child-development program, testing out a new vocal pattern.
I felt triumphant! I had scored a beat on bureaucracy! And I had gone on
the official records as someone more distinguished and indispensable to
mankind than "just another mother."
Motherhood...What a glorious career! Especially when there's a title on
the door.
Does this make grandmothers "Senior Research Associates in the field of
Child Development and Human Relations" and great grandmothers "Executive
Senior Research Associates"? I think so!!!
I also think it makes Aunts "Associate Research Assistants".
Sunday, October 31, 2004
Hyderabad Times Party
Attended the Hyderabad Times (HT) Party at ITC Kakatiya on 16th,
Saturday.
Hmmmm, what can I say.
Having attended Bangalore Times parties, I have to say, Hyderabad was
nowhere near the mark of Bangalore, forget Bombay and Delhi.
Other than Azhar and Sangeetha, for a non-telugu movie watcher there
were no celebrities at all. Tollywood supposedly turned up in force
judging by the coverage in Hyderabad Times (HT)today but none of them
were recognisable to our group of 10.
There were the occasional designers and the rest of them, but for the
most it was compised of the Hyderabadi Reddy's whose names are dropped
so often in the same HT. We normally get to meet more celebrities at
each visit to Preetam Reddy's "Touch" than the whole of the HT party.
The entertainment was restricted to a couple of dancers from the Bombay
dance bars, 3 Russian women who danced what the MC called the Can-Can
but from my limited knowledge of music and dance it seemed more of a
Flamenco oriented, Spanish-Gypsy music and dance number. Except that
they did kick their legs up high which could be reminiscent of the
can-can I guess. Then there were these 2 males from bombay who were
supposed to be strippers, but they didnÂ’t take off anything other than
their shirts. And they were wearing jeans so totally unfair
entertainment policy I should say, given that the female dancers were
wearing the barest minimum of fabric.
The MC did an absolutely lousy job of it. She kept repeating "so is this
party going to rock" as if willing it to rock just by her constant
repetition. Sad fact being that the attendees were usually, actually
having a good time until she came on stage to ask her rocking question.
The MC then conducted a so called "Spot Prize" distribution and called
out names of tolly wood stars to receive gift vouchers worth Rs.3000/-
each. Neither the distributor or the distributees could be located for
quite awhile. Finally the distributor n his wife were duly located, but
only 2 of the distributees were to be found. Allu arjun for most
eligible bachelor and some other guy who couldnÂ’t speak English too well
for dressing Bollywood style. Guess he was going for the Sallu look
since he had most of his buttons open.
The Band "Tidal Waves" from Goa was great. Their English numbers were
quite good, but with the theme being Bollywood remixed, they were
compelled to play such numbers too which werent up to the mark.
DJ Ryan Beck was brought in to play some music post 2AM and that was
pretty decent too.
The bar tender who did some juggling with flaming bottles did a good job
but he was more interested in pouring shooters down the throats of the
PYT's around.
Having cribbed about all this, the brightest spot which overshone
everything else was the FOOD. Kakataiya's food in Hyderabad has to rank
among the best.
There were buffet tables for salad, Haleem(veg option on offer too),
Hyderabadi cuisine, Oriental cuisine, Lebanese cuisine, Frontier &
Awadhi cuisine, an Indian Grill section apart from the desserts.
Check out My pub & restaurant
review blog for a Detailed Review of the Food
Dublin rocked for a while too. But after the amazing meal, and the
flowing Chivas Reagal, sleep was the only interesting option. Totally
agree with
we have reached the Uncle/Aunty phase in life.
Saturday.
Hmmmm, what can I say.
Having attended Bangalore Times parties, I have to say, Hyderabad was
nowhere near the mark of Bangalore, forget Bombay and Delhi.
Other than Azhar and Sangeetha, for a non-telugu movie watcher there
were no celebrities at all. Tollywood supposedly turned up in force
judging by the coverage in Hyderabad Times (HT)today but none of them
were recognisable to our group of 10.
There were the occasional designers and the rest of them, but for the
most it was compised of the Hyderabadi Reddy's whose names are dropped
so often in the same HT. We normally get to meet more celebrities at
each visit to Preetam Reddy's "Touch" than the whole of the HT party.
The entertainment was restricted to a couple of dancers from the Bombay
dance bars, 3 Russian women who danced what the MC called the Can-Can
but from my limited knowledge of music and dance it seemed more of a
Flamenco oriented, Spanish-Gypsy music and dance number. Except that
they did kick their legs up high which could be reminiscent of the
can-can I guess. Then there were these 2 males from bombay who were
supposed to be strippers, but they didnÂ’t take off anything other than
their shirts. And they were wearing jeans so totally unfair
entertainment policy I should say, given that the female dancers were
wearing the barest minimum of fabric.
The MC did an absolutely lousy job of it. She kept repeating "so is this
party going to rock" as if willing it to rock just by her constant
repetition. Sad fact being that the attendees were usually, actually
having a good time until she came on stage to ask her rocking question.
The MC then conducted a so called "Spot Prize" distribution and called
out names of tolly wood stars to receive gift vouchers worth Rs.3000/-
each. Neither the distributor or the distributees could be located for
quite awhile. Finally the distributor n his wife were duly located, but
only 2 of the distributees were to be found. Allu arjun for most
eligible bachelor and some other guy who couldnÂ’t speak English too well
for dressing Bollywood style. Guess he was going for the Sallu look
since he had most of his buttons open.
The Band "Tidal Waves" from Goa was great. Their English numbers were
quite good, but with the theme being Bollywood remixed, they were
compelled to play such numbers too which werent up to the mark.
DJ Ryan Beck was brought in to play some music post 2AM and that was
pretty decent too.
The bar tender who did some juggling with flaming bottles did a good job
but he was more interested in pouring shooters down the throats of the
PYT's around.
Having cribbed about all this, the brightest spot which overshone
everything else was the FOOD. Kakataiya's food in Hyderabad has to rank
among the best.
There were buffet tables for salad, Haleem(veg option on offer too),
Hyderabadi cuisine, Oriental cuisine, Lebanese cuisine, Frontier &
Awadhi cuisine, an Indian Grill section apart from the desserts.
Check out My pub & restaurant
review blog for a Detailed Review of the Food
Dublin rocked for a while too. But after the amazing meal, and the
flowing Chivas Reagal, sleep was the only interesting option. Totally
agree with
we have reached the Uncle/Aunty phase in life.
Wednesday, October 27, 2004
NASA Mission on Bannerghatta Road
-----Original Message-----
From: Rohit Punnoose
From: Rohit Punnoose
For one who travels to Electronics City every day on Bannerghatta Road, making each trip to and fro in atleast 1.5 to 2 excruciatingly painful hours, this certainly makes sense!!!! Conspiracy Theory anyone???!!! J
NASA Mission on Bannerghatta Road
Well, it was that time of the night when loneliness is your only companion, and shadows the only followers. It was around 2.00 AM in the morning.
I was bouncing away merrily on Bannerghatta road, when some bright lights stopped me. It took me a few minutes to realise that it was not a movie shooting. It took me a few more minutes to convince myself that this was not an alien landing either.
Though there was a modicum of clarity, there was a shade of doubt too. I proceeded to gamely question a well-clad man of foreign origin. "Shhh" he cautioned me.
Softly I asked him " What's happening brother". "NASA..."he whispered, "I am Dr. Morgan from The Lunar Exploration programme". Like all of us, I was sure I was drunk, or he was!
On watching a few men in spacesuits bumping around I realised he was speaking the truth. On further enquiry, he told me, that NASA had tried to create surroundings that would resemble the rocky, crater filled Moon's surface and had failed miserably. This led to a desperate search for test sites on planet earth.
Very few in earth qualified, only Iraq (An exploded Oil Well), Sri Lanka , and our own Bannerghatta road.
Of course, we were the lowest cost proposition, with Iraq ruled out as a high-risk venture, Sri Lanka because of the prevailing ceasefire, it was expected to have decent roads soon. What matched their needs best was the irreproducible surface that Bannerghatta road offered.
The Mars rover and Endeavour were bouncing away too, on the rugged surface.
Suddenly, I spotted the CM standing quietly in the distance. I walked up to him and smiled. He nodded, smiling softly. I looked at him enquiringly and asked him "Was this your idea"? My eyes gazed at the dilapidated piece of broken earth in front of me.
"Yes" he said almost humbly, too modest to acknowledge the enormity of his effort. "So, what's in it for us?" I probed. "Millions of dollars, that's what they have promised, once this gets approved as a broken earth site it will be used regularly. I also have plans of breaking up the other roads, which are happening under the guise of flyovers" he confided.
I shuddered at the enormity of the attempt. How all of us mortals, cribbed, raved and ranted every time we came across a broken road. How blind we have all been, eyes shut, we refused to view the big picture.
Every bad road is a million dollar opportunity. I bade quiet farewells to Dr. Morgan and the CM and quietly rode away.
As I reached the BTM flyover and my tyre went flat, I pushed my bike smiling softly.... a million dollars in every bad road I told myself...what do you think?
Disclaimer --> any reference to any person dead or alive is purely intentional !!!
Tuesday, October 19, 2004
Grandma's operation successful
Thank you to everyone who prayed for my grandma. She was taken into the
operation theatre finally at 3:00PM IST today. She was brought out at
5:30 PM. The doctor has inserted 3 stents in her heart. The procedure
was successful. They will be removing the tube at midnight today and by
tomorrow, she will be brought to the room. If things move smoothly, we
can bring her home by Friday. There arent too many complications in post
operative in a case like this. So thanks to all ytour prayers, grandma
is doing well.
Thank you once again from everyone in the Aranha family.
operation theatre finally at 3:00PM IST today. She was brought out at
5:30 PM. The doctor has inserted 3 stents in her heart. The procedure
was successful. They will be removing the tube at midnight today and by
tomorrow, she will be brought to the room. If things move smoothly, we
can bring her home by Friday. There arent too many complications in post
operative in a case like this. So thanks to all ytour prayers, grandma
is doing well.
Thank you once again from everyone in the Aranha family.
Women 'better at holding drink'
Thanks to Ramnath Shenoy.
Women 'better at holding drink'
Some men may not want to hear this - but scientists have found women are
better at holding their drink.
Kentucky University researchers found men's loss of inhibition was three
times greater than women's with the same blood alcohol levels.
Writing in the journal Addiction, they said the finding might explain
why men are more likely to become aggressive.
It found men appeared to become more stimulated after drinking while
women became more relaxed.
The researchers gave 12 men and 12 women, all classed as "social
drinkers" a set amount of alcohol each. They then tested their ability
to hit a button at the right time when a symbol flashed up. Participants
had to hit a green button when a green symbol flashed up. If a blue
symbol appeared, they were told not to hit anything. People became less
able to prevent themselves hitting the green key when a blue symbol
appeared the more drunk they became.
But the men's performance was around three times worse than the women's.
The participants were then asked to evaluate the effect they thought
alcohol had on them, rating how well certain adjectives applied to them.
The men reported levels of stimulation, including aggression, confidence
and loss of inhibition, which were two and a half times higher than
women,
In contrast, the women reported a six times higher level of sedation
than the men.
Writing in Addition, the researchers led by psychologist Dr Mark
Fillimore, said: "The gender
difference in response inhibition could reflect differences in
alcohol-induced arousal in men and women. "Men reported increased
stimulation and women reported increased sedation in response to
alcohol."
They added: "Evidence that men report greater stimulation than women
could reflect a basic gender difference in the degree to which alcohol
increases arousal that might also contribute to disinhibited
behaviour."
The team suggested that biological and psychological differences could
explain why men and women respond to alcohol differently.
"Social and cultural learning cannot be ruled out as a causal factor.
For example, men and women differ in the types of effects that they
expect from alcohol, and such expectations could influence behaviour
under the drug."
Dr Fillimore added: "There is a general supposition that women don't
hold their liquor very well but our results show that it is men who
become uninhibited and get a high more quickly."
Jim Orford, professor of psychology at Birmingham University, told the
Sunday Times newspaper:
"Women on average are entering drinking situations a bit more
cautiously, whereas men have less reservation about how they are going
to behave, with more expectation that they're going to get stimulated."
He added: "If men go out in order to feel stimulated - they're 'up for
it' - then they're going to feel more stimulated. If women are going out
in order to relax, then at the same blood-alcohol level they're going to
feel more relaxed and sedated."
A spokeswoman for Alcohol Concern told BBC News Online: "We need to see
more evidence to back these conclusions up."
Sudz inference :
so the men who walk straight and drive straight aftur a drink are less
macho and more feminine and therefore more eligible to face the glass
ceiling..........and if "thats" the way women relax aftur a drink then
its safer to be just stimulated........
and women who do 'nautankee' aftur a drink are definately wearing menz
underwear..........
are u relaxing or am I stimulated ???? .............oooooo the futility
of this existence
sudz
Women 'better at holding drink'
Some men may not want to hear this - but scientists have found women are
better at holding their drink.
Kentucky University researchers found men's loss of inhibition was three
times greater than women's with the same blood alcohol levels.
Writing in the journal Addiction, they said the finding might explain
why men are more likely to become aggressive.
It found men appeared to become more stimulated after drinking while
women became more relaxed.
The researchers gave 12 men and 12 women, all classed as "social
drinkers" a set amount of alcohol each. They then tested their ability
to hit a button at the right time when a symbol flashed up. Participants
had to hit a green button when a green symbol flashed up. If a blue
symbol appeared, they were told not to hit anything. People became less
able to prevent themselves hitting the green key when a blue symbol
appeared the more drunk they became.
But the men's performance was around three times worse than the women's.
The participants were then asked to evaluate the effect they thought
alcohol had on them, rating how well certain adjectives applied to them.
The men reported levels of stimulation, including aggression, confidence
and loss of inhibition, which were two and a half times higher than
women,
In contrast, the women reported a six times higher level of sedation
than the men.
Writing in Addition, the researchers led by psychologist Dr Mark
Fillimore, said: "The gender
difference in response inhibition could reflect differences in
alcohol-induced arousal in men and women. "Men reported increased
stimulation and women reported increased sedation in response to
alcohol."
They added: "Evidence that men report greater stimulation than women
could reflect a basic gender difference in the degree to which alcohol
increases arousal that might also contribute to disinhibited
behaviour."
The team suggested that biological and psychological differences could
explain why men and women respond to alcohol differently.
"Social and cultural learning cannot be ruled out as a causal factor.
For example, men and women differ in the types of effects that they
expect from alcohol, and such expectations could influence behaviour
under the drug."
Dr Fillimore added: "There is a general supposition that women don't
hold their liquor very well but our results show that it is men who
become uninhibited and get a high more quickly."
Jim Orford, professor of psychology at Birmingham University, told the
Sunday Times newspaper:
"Women on average are entering drinking situations a bit more
cautiously, whereas men have less reservation about how they are going
to behave, with more expectation that they're going to get stimulated."
He added: "If men go out in order to feel stimulated - they're 'up for
it' - then they're going to feel more stimulated. If women are going out
in order to relax, then at the same blood-alcohol level they're going to
feel more relaxed and sedated."
A spokeswoman for Alcohol Concern told BBC News Online: "We need to see
more evidence to back these conclusions up."
Sudz inference :
so the men who walk straight and drive straight aftur a drink are less
macho and more feminine and therefore more eligible to face the glass
ceiling..........and if "thats" the way women relax aftur a drink then
its safer to be just stimulated........
and women who do 'nautankee' aftur a drink are definately wearing menz
underwear..........
are u relaxing or am I stimulated ???? .............oooooo the futility
of this existence
sudz
Spiritual reading list.
This has been compiled by a friend of Prof Fenn. It seems extremely
comprehensive to me.
-----Original Message-----
From: Dr. Mathai Baker Fenn, XLRI
Sometime Ago I was asked to send out my spiritual reading list. My
friend collected results from many respondents like me and made this
list. I think its a wonderful exercise and would like to share it all
with you.
Mathai
Spiritual Read List:
Navaratri 2004
One day I was asked, ‘What are the best books to read on spirituality?’
I did not know how to answer this question forthwith. I said I would get
back. Then, for a start, I made a list of all the books that had made an
impact on me spiritually. I also discussed this with several people:
among them were my friends and fellow seekers, and people from all walks
of life; artists and littérateurs, scholars and philosophers, priests
and religious heads,
office-goers and men of commerce.
There was much deliberation about the criterion and inclusions to such a
list. Several opinions emerged, starting from ‘what is spirituality?’ to
‘what is the literature that can ennoble, initiate, start, transform and
convert one towards the felicity of the Spirit and benediction of the
Divine. Spirituality appeared to find its allies in varied kinds of
literature. I have edited the titles, which came up in this search in
the hope that they will benefit one and all.
So here are the books that have helped my spiritual journey and also
those dear to me.
The list has predominantly titles from Hinduism but it is in no way
limiting to one faith or belief. You may be surprised at the eclectic
list that has emerged.
A. BEGINNERÂ’S LIST
METAPHYSICAL POETRY
1.Sudha Dhara: Sitaramdas Omkarnath
2.Gitanjali: Rabindranath Tagore
3.Works of Kabir(Kabir Padavali, Bijak, Songs of Kabir: Rabindranath
Tagore)
4.Tulasidas(Ramcharitmanas, Gitavali, Kavitavali, Vinaya Patrika, Barvai
Ramayana,
Hanuman Chalisa)
5.The Essential Rumi: Jalaluddin Rumi
6.Songs of Ramprasad
7.Duino Elegies: Rainer Maria Rilke
8.Paradise Lost/ Paradise Regain: John Milton
9.A Book of Luminous Things (Anthology): Czeslaw Milosz
10.Religious Poems: John Donne
SPIRITUAL PROSE/ FICTION
11.Siddhartha: Herman Hesse
12.The Prophet: Khalil Gibran
13.Resurrection: Lev Tolstoy
14.The Plague: Albert Camus
15.The Outsider: Albert Camus
16.RazorÂ’s Edge: W. Saumerset Maugham
17.The Age of Reason: Jean Paul Sartre
18.Illusions: Richard Bach
19.The Way of All The Earth: John S Dunne
20.Stepenwolf: Herman Hesse
21.Demian: Herman Hesse
22.Night: Wiesel, Elie
23.Silence: Shusaku Endo
24.Care of the Soul: Thomas Moore
25.Potrait of An Artist As A Young Man: James Joyce
26.The Alchemist: Paulo Coelho
27.The Pilgimage: Pulo Coelho
28.By The River Of Madeira I Sat Down And Wept
BIOGRAPHICAL
29.The Autobiography/ My Experiments With Truth: M K Gandhi
30.My Guru & His Disciple: Christopher Isherwood
31."Leela Prashanga" - Life of Shri Ramakrishna: Swami Sharadananda
32.Among The Great: Conversations with Sri Aurobindo, Mahatma Gandhi,
Rabindranath Tagore, Romain Roland, Bertrand Russel. Dilip Kumar Roy.
33.Meetings With Remarkable Men: Gurdjieff, G.I.
34.Notes to myself: Hugh Prather
EXPLORATORY
35.The Eternal Festival: Kinkar Bitthal Ramanuja
36.Autobiography of a Yogi: Yogananda, Paramahansa
37.Living With The Himalayan Masters: Swami Rama
38.Search In Secret India: Paul Brunton
39.Hermit In The Himalayas: Paul Brunton
40.Teaching Beyond Yoga: Paul Brunton
41.Toward The Silver Crests Of The Himalayas: G P Pradhan
42.Many lives, many masters: Brian L Weiss
43.Wisdom of the Ancient Sages: Swami Rama
44.New Discovery - Swami Vivekananda in the West: Mary Louis Buck (Vol.
I - VI)
BASIC SPIRITUALITY
45.Amar Chitra Katha
46.Gospel of Sri Ramakrishna: Vol I & II. Swami Nikhilananda
47.Sai Sat Charitra
48.The Spiritual Teachings of Ramana Maharshi
49.Commentaries On The Bible: William Barclay
50.Prayers for the common man: William Barclay
51.The Good Heart: Dalai Lama
52.The Song Celestial: Edwin Arnold
53.Bhagwat Gita: Swami Chinmayananda
54.Bhagawat Gita: Dr. Radhakrishnan
55.The Message of the Upanishads (Ramakarishan Mission)
56.Krinshnavatara : C. Rajagopalacharya
57.Anashakti Yoga:MK Gandhi
58.Works of Vinoba Bhave
59.Am I a Hindu: Ed Vishwanathan(Gita Pravachane, Ahimsa Ki Khoj, Maha
Gufa Mein Pravesh)
CONTEMPLATIVE TREATISES
60.The Road Less Traveled: Peck, M. Scott.
61.Light On The Path: Mabel Collins
62.Wise Blood: O'Connor, Flannery
63.Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism: Chogyam Trungpa
64.The Seven Storey Mountain: Merton, Thomas.
65.Thoughts in Solitude: Merton, Thomas.
66.The Power of Now: A Guide To Spiritual Enlightenment: Eckhart Tolle
67.Stillness Speaks: Eckhart Tolle
68.The Inner Look: Silo (Mario Rodriguez)
69.Living Enlightenmment: Andrew Cohen
70.Embracing Heaven & Earth: Andrew Cohen
71.Works of Thich Nhat Nanh(Being Peace, The Blooming of Lotus, Breath!
You Are Alive)
B. ADVANCED LIST
TIMELESS CLASSICS
72.The Vedas
73.Upanishads
74.The Puranas
75.The Bible
76.The Kuran
77.Guru Granth Sahib
78.Mahabharata
79.Ramayana(Tulasi Ramayana, Valmiki Ramayana, Adhyatma Ramayana, Anand
Ramayana)
80.Works of Adi Shankara(Saundarya Lahiri, Vivekachudamani, Bhaja
Govindam, Adi Giri Nandini)
81.Manu Smriti
82.Patanjali Yoga Sutras (Aphorisms of Patanjali)
83.Imitation of Christ: Thomas aÂ’ Kempis
84.The Cloud of Unknowing and the Book of Privy Counselling: Author
Unknown, edited by William Johnston
85.The Gospel of Thomas: Anonymous; Marvin Meyer
86.The Sayings of Confucius
87.Tao Te Ching: Lao Tsu
GITAS
88.Avadhuta Gita: Dattatreya
89.Guru Gita
90.Ram Gita
91.Ashtavakra Gita
92.Uddhav Gita
WORKS OF/ ON SAINTS/ SEERS
93.Works of Sri Sri Sitaramdas Omkarnath:(Andhare Alo: Light in
Darkness, Maharasayana: The Great Elixir, Sudha Dhara:: Streams of
Nectar, Abhay Vani: Hope Abounding, Sri Sri Mahamantyra
Samkirtana: Chanting of the Name, Tri Ratna: Triple Gem, Amrit Bindu: A
Drop of Nectar, Birahinir Abhisar: The Maid In Quest of Her Beloved,
Naad Leelamrit, Naamamrit Lahari, Guru Puja, Bhakta Leela, Guru
Mahimamrit)
94.Chaitanya Charitamrit (Life of Chaitanya Mahaprabhu)
95.Sadhak Sanjeevani (On Bhagawat Gita): Swami Ramsukhdas
96.I Am That: Nisargadutt Maharaj
97.Chitshaktivilas: Play of Consciousness: Swami Muktananada, Paul Zweig
98.Churning of the Heart, Introduction to Spiritual Life (Vol. I-III):
Swami Shivom Tirth
99.A Guide to Shaktipath: Swami Shivom Tirth
100.Trek of Spirituality (Sadhan Path): Swami Shivom Tirth
101.Essays On The Gita: Sri Aurobindo
102.Hindu Dharma: Chandrashekharendra Saraswati Mahaswamiji
103.Complete Works of Swami Vivekananda Vol I Vol X
104.Works of Madhusudan Saraswati(Commentary on Gita, siddhaantabindu,
vedaantakalpalatika and bhakti rasaayana)
105.Sri Amritanandmayir Jibani
106.Mind, Its Mystery & Control: Swami Sivananda
107.Bharatiya Sanskriti Aur Sadhana: Mahamahopadhyaya Pandit Gopinathji
Kaviraj
108.Deeksha: Mahamahopadhyaya Pandit Gopinathji Kaviraj
109.Sadhu Darshan Evam Satprasanga: Mahamahopadhyaya Pandit Gopinathji
Kaviraj
110.Tapobhumi Narmada: Shailendra Narayan Ghoshal
111.Be Here Now: Ram Dass
112.Yoga Darshana (commentaries by Acharya Sharma)
113.Surya Namaskara by Appa Pant
114.The Holy Kural: Saint Tiruvalluvar
115.Works of Bhartrihari(vairagya satakam (hundred verses on
renunciation), niti-satakam and
sringara-satakam (hundred verses on worldly wisdom and love)
100.Periyapuranam compiled by Sekkizhar (life of 63 saints [nayanmars])
101.Ekanathi Bhagawat: Sant Ekanath
102.Jnaneshwari: Sant Jnaneshwar
103.Zero Experience: Swami Agehananda
104.The Truth Is: HWL Poonja
105.Purana Purush Yogiraj Sri Shama Churn Lahiree: Dr. Ashok Kumar
Chaterjee
106.The Eternal Sage: VR Prabhu (On Akkalkot Swami)
OTHERS
107.Hindu Shastra: Rameshchandra Dutta
108.Ved Vichinta: Vil I & II: Mahanaamvrata Brahmachari
109.Vaishnav Vedanta: Mahanaamvrata Brahmachari
110.Glimpses of Indian Culture: Dr. Dhyanesh Narayana Chakravarti
111.Dev Devi Udbhav Kramvikas: Hansanarayana Bhattacharya
SUFI
112.Caravan of Dreams: Idries Shah
113.The Way Of The Sufi: Idries Shah
114.Sufi Teachings: Hazrat Inayat Khan
CONTEMPLATIVE TREATISES
115.Pensees: Blaise Pascal
116.Meditations: Marcus Aurelius
117.The Varieties of Religious Experience: William James
118.Modern Man In Search of A Soul: Carl Jung
119.Memories, Dreams, Reflections: Carl Jung
120.Self Reliance & Other Essays: Ralph Waldo Emerson
121.The Nature & Destiny of Man: Niebuhr, Reinhold.
122.Mysticism: Underhill, Evelyn
PHILOSOPHIC
123.Perennial Philosophy: Aldous Huxley
124.Think on These Things: Jiddu Krishnamurthi
125.Freedom from the Known: Jiddu Krishnamurthi
126.In Search of Miraculous: Ouspensky, P.D.
127.The Fourth Way: Ouspensky, P.D.
128.The Idea of the Holy: Otto, Rudolf
129.Art of Loving: Erich Fromm
130.You Shall Be As Gods: Erich Fromm
ZEN THOUGHT/ BUDDHISM
131.The Way of Zen: Alan Watts
132.Behold The Spirit: Alan Watts
133.Feeling Buddha: David Frazer
134.Zen Mind, BeginnerÂ’s Mind: Suzuki, Shunryu
135.Zen Flesh, Zen Bones: Reps, Paul and Senzaki, Nyogan.
136.Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance: Robert Pirsig
137.Guide to Bodhisattva Way of Life: Shantideva
138.The Way of The White Clouds: Lama Govinda
139.Essays In Zen Buddhism: Suzuki D.T
140.Awakening The Buddha Within: Lama Surya Das
BIHAR SCHOOL OF YOGA
(Kundalini Tantra, Prana Vidya, Yoga Nidra, Kriya Yoga, Swara Yoga,
Surya Namaskara, Asana, Mudra Bandha, Pranayama, Meditation and the
Tantras)
Thus ends the first Spiritual Read List edited by Raj Supe. This one is
Navratri 2004 edition and it will be revised and published every year.
Inclusions and comments to this list are kindly solicited from the host
of spiritual aspirants, practitioners and adepts from all quarters.
*****
comprehensive to me.
-----Original Message-----
From: Dr. Mathai Baker Fenn, XLRI
Sometime Ago I was asked to send out my spiritual reading list. My
friend collected results from many respondents like me and made this
list. I think its a wonderful exercise and would like to share it all
with you.
Mathai
Spiritual Read List:
Navaratri 2004
One day I was asked, ‘What are the best books to read on spirituality?’
I did not know how to answer this question forthwith. I said I would get
back. Then, for a start, I made a list of all the books that had made an
impact on me spiritually. I also discussed this with several people:
among them were my friends and fellow seekers, and people from all walks
of life; artists and littérateurs, scholars and philosophers, priests
and religious heads,
office-goers and men of commerce.
There was much deliberation about the criterion and inclusions to such a
list. Several opinions emerged, starting from ‘what is spirituality?’ to
‘what is the literature that can ennoble, initiate, start, transform and
convert one towards the felicity of the Spirit and benediction of the
Divine. Spirituality appeared to find its allies in varied kinds of
literature. I have edited the titles, which came up in this search in
the hope that they will benefit one and all.
So here are the books that have helped my spiritual journey and also
those dear to me.
The list has predominantly titles from Hinduism but it is in no way
limiting to one faith or belief. You may be surprised at the eclectic
list that has emerged.
A. BEGINNERÂ’S LIST
METAPHYSICAL POETRY
1.Sudha Dhara: Sitaramdas Omkarnath
2.Gitanjali: Rabindranath Tagore
3.Works of Kabir(Kabir Padavali, Bijak, Songs of Kabir: Rabindranath
Tagore)
4.Tulasidas(Ramcharitmanas, Gitavali, Kavitavali, Vinaya Patrika, Barvai
Ramayana,
Hanuman Chalisa)
5.The Essential Rumi: Jalaluddin Rumi
6.Songs of Ramprasad
7.Duino Elegies: Rainer Maria Rilke
8.Paradise Lost/ Paradise Regain: John Milton
9.A Book of Luminous Things (Anthology): Czeslaw Milosz
10.Religious Poems: John Donne
SPIRITUAL PROSE/ FICTION
11.Siddhartha: Herman Hesse
12.The Prophet: Khalil Gibran
13.Resurrection: Lev Tolstoy
14.The Plague: Albert Camus
15.The Outsider: Albert Camus
16.RazorÂ’s Edge: W. Saumerset Maugham
17.The Age of Reason: Jean Paul Sartre
18.Illusions: Richard Bach
19.The Way of All The Earth: John S Dunne
20.Stepenwolf: Herman Hesse
21.Demian: Herman Hesse
22.Night: Wiesel, Elie
23.Silence: Shusaku Endo
24.Care of the Soul: Thomas Moore
25.Potrait of An Artist As A Young Man: James Joyce
26.The Alchemist: Paulo Coelho
27.The Pilgimage: Pulo Coelho
28.By The River Of Madeira I Sat Down And Wept
BIOGRAPHICAL
29.The Autobiography/ My Experiments With Truth: M K Gandhi
30.My Guru & His Disciple: Christopher Isherwood
31."Leela Prashanga" - Life of Shri Ramakrishna: Swami Sharadananda
32.Among The Great: Conversations with Sri Aurobindo, Mahatma Gandhi,
Rabindranath Tagore, Romain Roland, Bertrand Russel. Dilip Kumar Roy.
33.Meetings With Remarkable Men: Gurdjieff, G.I.
34.Notes to myself: Hugh Prather
EXPLORATORY
35.The Eternal Festival: Kinkar Bitthal Ramanuja
36.Autobiography of a Yogi: Yogananda, Paramahansa
37.Living With The Himalayan Masters: Swami Rama
38.Search In Secret India: Paul Brunton
39.Hermit In The Himalayas: Paul Brunton
40.Teaching Beyond Yoga: Paul Brunton
41.Toward The Silver Crests Of The Himalayas: G P Pradhan
42.Many lives, many masters: Brian L Weiss
43.Wisdom of the Ancient Sages: Swami Rama
44.New Discovery - Swami Vivekananda in the West: Mary Louis Buck (Vol.
I - VI)
BASIC SPIRITUALITY
45.Amar Chitra Katha
46.Gospel of Sri Ramakrishna: Vol I & II. Swami Nikhilananda
47.Sai Sat Charitra
48.The Spiritual Teachings of Ramana Maharshi
49.Commentaries On The Bible: William Barclay
50.Prayers for the common man: William Barclay
51.The Good Heart: Dalai Lama
52.The Song Celestial: Edwin Arnold
53.Bhagwat Gita: Swami Chinmayananda
54.Bhagawat Gita: Dr. Radhakrishnan
55.The Message of the Upanishads (Ramakarishan Mission)
56.Krinshnavatara : C. Rajagopalacharya
57.Anashakti Yoga:MK Gandhi
58.Works of Vinoba Bhave
59.Am I a Hindu: Ed Vishwanathan(Gita Pravachane, Ahimsa Ki Khoj, Maha
Gufa Mein Pravesh)
CONTEMPLATIVE TREATISES
60.The Road Less Traveled: Peck, M. Scott.
61.Light On The Path: Mabel Collins
62.Wise Blood: O'Connor, Flannery
63.Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism: Chogyam Trungpa
64.The Seven Storey Mountain: Merton, Thomas.
65.Thoughts in Solitude: Merton, Thomas.
66.The Power of Now: A Guide To Spiritual Enlightenment: Eckhart Tolle
67.Stillness Speaks: Eckhart Tolle
68.The Inner Look: Silo (Mario Rodriguez)
69.Living Enlightenmment: Andrew Cohen
70.Embracing Heaven & Earth: Andrew Cohen
71.Works of Thich Nhat Nanh(Being Peace, The Blooming of Lotus, Breath!
You Are Alive)
B. ADVANCED LIST
TIMELESS CLASSICS
72.The Vedas
73.Upanishads
74.The Puranas
75.The Bible
76.The Kuran
77.Guru Granth Sahib
78.Mahabharata
79.Ramayana(Tulasi Ramayana, Valmiki Ramayana, Adhyatma Ramayana, Anand
Ramayana)
80.Works of Adi Shankara(Saundarya Lahiri, Vivekachudamani, Bhaja
Govindam, Adi Giri Nandini)
81.Manu Smriti
82.Patanjali Yoga Sutras (Aphorisms of Patanjali)
83.Imitation of Christ: Thomas aÂ’ Kempis
84.The Cloud of Unknowing and the Book of Privy Counselling: Author
Unknown, edited by William Johnston
85.The Gospel of Thomas: Anonymous; Marvin Meyer
86.The Sayings of Confucius
87.Tao Te Ching: Lao Tsu
GITAS
88.Avadhuta Gita: Dattatreya
89.Guru Gita
90.Ram Gita
91.Ashtavakra Gita
92.Uddhav Gita
WORKS OF/ ON SAINTS/ SEERS
93.Works of Sri Sri Sitaramdas Omkarnath:(Andhare Alo: Light in
Darkness, Maharasayana: The Great Elixir, Sudha Dhara:: Streams of
Nectar, Abhay Vani: Hope Abounding, Sri Sri Mahamantyra
Samkirtana: Chanting of the Name, Tri Ratna: Triple Gem, Amrit Bindu: A
Drop of Nectar, Birahinir Abhisar: The Maid In Quest of Her Beloved,
Naad Leelamrit, Naamamrit Lahari, Guru Puja, Bhakta Leela, Guru
Mahimamrit)
94.Chaitanya Charitamrit (Life of Chaitanya Mahaprabhu)
95.Sadhak Sanjeevani (On Bhagawat Gita): Swami Ramsukhdas
96.I Am That: Nisargadutt Maharaj
97.Chitshaktivilas: Play of Consciousness: Swami Muktananada, Paul Zweig
98.Churning of the Heart, Introduction to Spiritual Life (Vol. I-III):
Swami Shivom Tirth
99.A Guide to Shaktipath: Swami Shivom Tirth
100.Trek of Spirituality (Sadhan Path): Swami Shivom Tirth
101.Essays On The Gita: Sri Aurobindo
102.Hindu Dharma: Chandrashekharendra Saraswati Mahaswamiji
103.Complete Works of Swami Vivekananda Vol I Vol X
104.Works of Madhusudan Saraswati(Commentary on Gita, siddhaantabindu,
vedaantakalpalatika and bhakti rasaayana)
105.Sri Amritanandmayir Jibani
106.Mind, Its Mystery & Control: Swami Sivananda
107.Bharatiya Sanskriti Aur Sadhana: Mahamahopadhyaya Pandit Gopinathji
Kaviraj
108.Deeksha: Mahamahopadhyaya Pandit Gopinathji Kaviraj
109.Sadhu Darshan Evam Satprasanga: Mahamahopadhyaya Pandit Gopinathji
Kaviraj
110.Tapobhumi Narmada: Shailendra Narayan Ghoshal
111.Be Here Now: Ram Dass
112.Yoga Darshana (commentaries by Acharya Sharma)
113.Surya Namaskara by Appa Pant
114.The Holy Kural: Saint Tiruvalluvar
115.Works of Bhartrihari(vairagya satakam (hundred verses on
renunciation), niti-satakam and
sringara-satakam (hundred verses on worldly wisdom and love)
100.Periyapuranam compiled by Sekkizhar (life of 63 saints [nayanmars])
101.Ekanathi Bhagawat: Sant Ekanath
102.Jnaneshwari: Sant Jnaneshwar
103.Zero Experience: Swami Agehananda
104.The Truth Is: HWL Poonja
105.Purana Purush Yogiraj Sri Shama Churn Lahiree: Dr. Ashok Kumar
Chaterjee
106.The Eternal Sage: VR Prabhu (On Akkalkot Swami)
OTHERS
107.Hindu Shastra: Rameshchandra Dutta
108.Ved Vichinta: Vil I & II: Mahanaamvrata Brahmachari
109.Vaishnav Vedanta: Mahanaamvrata Brahmachari
110.Glimpses of Indian Culture: Dr. Dhyanesh Narayana Chakravarti
111.Dev Devi Udbhav Kramvikas: Hansanarayana Bhattacharya
SUFI
112.Caravan of Dreams: Idries Shah
113.The Way Of The Sufi: Idries Shah
114.Sufi Teachings: Hazrat Inayat Khan
CONTEMPLATIVE TREATISES
115.Pensees: Blaise Pascal
116.Meditations: Marcus Aurelius
117.The Varieties of Religious Experience: William James
118.Modern Man In Search of A Soul: Carl Jung
119.Memories, Dreams, Reflections: Carl Jung
120.Self Reliance & Other Essays: Ralph Waldo Emerson
121.The Nature & Destiny of Man: Niebuhr, Reinhold.
122.Mysticism: Underhill, Evelyn
PHILOSOPHIC
123.Perennial Philosophy: Aldous Huxley
124.Think on These Things: Jiddu Krishnamurthi
125.Freedom from the Known: Jiddu Krishnamurthi
126.In Search of Miraculous: Ouspensky, P.D.
127.The Fourth Way: Ouspensky, P.D.
128.The Idea of the Holy: Otto, Rudolf
129.Art of Loving: Erich Fromm
130.You Shall Be As Gods: Erich Fromm
ZEN THOUGHT/ BUDDHISM
131.The Way of Zen: Alan Watts
132.Behold The Spirit: Alan Watts
133.Feeling Buddha: David Frazer
134.Zen Mind, BeginnerÂ’s Mind: Suzuki, Shunryu
135.Zen Flesh, Zen Bones: Reps, Paul and Senzaki, Nyogan.
136.Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance: Robert Pirsig
137.Guide to Bodhisattva Way of Life: Shantideva
138.The Way of The White Clouds: Lama Govinda
139.Essays In Zen Buddhism: Suzuki D.T
140.Awakening The Buddha Within: Lama Surya Das
BIHAR SCHOOL OF YOGA
(Kundalini Tantra, Prana Vidya, Yoga Nidra, Kriya Yoga, Swara Yoga,
Surya Namaskara, Asana, Mudra Bandha, Pranayama, Meditation and the
Tantras)
Thus ends the first Spiritual Read List edited by Raj Supe. This one is
Navratri 2004 edition and it will be revised and published every year.
Inclusions and comments to this list are kindly solicited from the host
of spiritual aspirants, practitioners and adepts from all quarters.
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